joshextreme Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 Officially it's been one week since I started NC with my ex. This is the longest I've gone without talking to her. I have un friended her on Facebook. Things are getting better I think. I'm starting to worry about her less. With certain events coming up in the next few months I'm kinda hoping that NC makes her realize what shes missing. It might since she's seeing the extent to which I'm doing things (un friending her, and not coming back to her). I wanna thank this forum for being a huge support for me. Stumbling across this site was probably the best thing that has happened to me in awhile. I'll probably post weekly updates.
No_hope Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 Oh good! I know my first week was always the hardest, I am in day 11 of NC, my longest I went with out contact was about 2-3 weeks. So I am not even going to do anything till they contact me. Which they will have to sooner then later if he wants anything to do with his son. stay strong!
Author joshextreme Posted March 19, 2011 Author Posted March 19, 2011 Oh good! I know my first week was always the hardest, I am in day 11 of NC, my longest I went with out contact was about 2-3 weeks. So I am not even going to do anything till they contact me. Which they will have to sooner then later if he wants anything to do with his son. stay strong! I know they say that NC is for your self but I seriously want her to realize what shes missing lol.
Author joshextreme Posted March 20, 2011 Author Posted March 20, 2011 Dont use NC as a means of getting back with her. Even if she misses YOU, she might just be missing the person and not the relationship. If youre gonna try to get back with her, youd best start by dropping the idea. Thatll let you have a fresh fresh start. That actually makes a lot of sense. Right now I'm just so not sure on what to do because it's so early in the NC.
Author joshextreme Posted March 20, 2011 Author Posted March 20, 2011 Don't worry, thats whats NC for. So that you sort out what you want to do and not have the risk of doing stupidities. It gets better after the second week. I know because Im in the same situation Yeah thanks bro. As the days go on I lose the urge to text her.
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