Wolf18 Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 (edited) Well I've always been a little shy and anti-social throughout my high school years. People have always told me that my lack of confidence and not being very outgoing was the root of my problem with women (although I still had plenty of them around due to various activities I was part of, just not romantically/sexually) . I made it a mission to change this, and have had no success, so it's time for plan B. Well I am now 22 and still have had no success. I have done some changes to my appearance like dressing nicer and my personality is far more outgoing and charismatic than before. However I don't think that's enough, so these are the further changes I'm doing. A) Body building. I have two strikes against me in that I am 5'7 and only around 135 pounds. Women aren't crazy about slender guys (although I'm not really a bag of bones, I have some muscle but my shoulders are narrow) and 9 out of 10 think being under 5'10 is a huge negative in the package. Even a girl who is the same exact height as me and has really connected with me (even called me her soulmate) can't get over it and has friendzoned me. I cut her out of my life because of this because it was excruciatingly painful that such an intelligent and kind girl that I respected so deeply would put aside all we have in common (including lots of obscure musical and artistic tastes that nobody else has) for such a petty reason. I'm pretty brave and always stand up for myself and girls and friends have told me they feel protected around me, but I still don't think that's enough since my romantic life is still a collossal failure. I plan on putting on maybe 20 pounds of muscle by weight training. B) Getting a car. I have not gotten my drivers license yet because I don't really need one (I take public transportation everywhere), but I feel women really don't like this. C) Getting a new job. I'm pretty broke right now because my job is crap. I'm currently applying for better jobs around the city. I know having just 300 dollars in my bank account is a huge turn off for most girls. What else do you guys think I'm missing? Edited March 19, 2011 by Wolf18
Mrlonelyone Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 None of what you are doing can hurt. However you must know that plenty of shorter slender men have girlfriends and wives. Plenty of men who take public transport get dates. Here is what you can do.... Pursue much shorter women. Plenty of five foot tall women would like you...even in 6 in heels you would be an inch taller than them. Perfect for kissing. As for being slender. If you get cut being slender is just fine. Plenty of cut toned slender men get women.... What matters most is tone and body fat %. Not just being big. Most importantly try to meet more women. The more women you meet the more likelyyoull get a date. The more dates the better the chance of getting a GF.
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