Balance11 Posted March 18, 2011 Posted March 18, 2011 This friend of mine, i've known for about a year now, started off just casually texting, i asked her out, she said she was flattered but wasn't looking for anything then and didnt expect me to wait around, fair enough, move on kinda thing. She started texting me shortly afterwards, awkward at first but over the months its stronger than ever. Text each over numerous times everyday, the kisses went from the normal 1 or 2 to 4 consistently, she's started to phone me as well as texting, see's me at work sometimes (bar/restaurant work). Stuff we talk about is just joking on stuff but also serious stuff she says she hasn't told anyone else. Okay so i dont get this,she has other close male friends who she strongly points out are just her friends, so what the hell am i to her, friend or more ? I know she is attracted to me she told me ages ago.
smudge21 Posted March 18, 2011 Posted March 18, 2011 You clearly know each other very well, so should feel comfortable talking to each other. So ask her. Keep it nice, don't come across like your too happy that there's more going on or that you're too angry that she's being a bit unsure with you. Just keep it natural and friendly and ask her. She already knows you're interested, now all you're doing is finding out how she feels. Failing that, just keep on going as you are and see what happens. I see them as your two choices.
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