youaretheone Posted March 18, 2011 Posted March 18, 2011 (edited) I went on two dates with this girl and all the signs were positive. We kissed a few times and shared a lot. Everything was smooth. I call her last Wednesday and ask her out for Friday. She says she has another meeting at that time and will see if she can arrange it so we decide to talk about it again before Friday. She sounded very enthusiastic about it. Last evening, I call her to set up the date but she does not answer. Then I see on Facebook that she is attending some pubnight. Then this morning, she sends me a text like "Sorry, I feel a bit sick today and I want to stay at home to recover." What is the best course of action to take here? I want to call her and see if she is feeling ok. Should I suggest a new date? I know I should trust her but I had girls bailing out before saying that they are sick so I am somehow unconfident with this when it comes to this stage. Your advice is appreicated. Edited March 18, 2011 by youaretheone
complicationsinlove Posted March 18, 2011 Posted March 18, 2011 That's what dating is all about, taking chances. Sometimes you have to go throough the bad to make it to great. You never know until you try. Ask her how she feels, and let me know the outcome
Author youaretheone Posted March 18, 2011 Author Posted March 18, 2011 That's what dating is all about, taking chances. Sometimes you have to go throough the bad to make it to great. You never know until you try. Ask her how she feels, and let me know the outcome I am planning to call her to ask how she is feeling. Do you think asking her for a new date on the spot would be come off too strong?
complicationsinlove Posted March 18, 2011 Posted March 18, 2011 Yeah, just ask her how she feels so she would know your thinkkng about her and your intrerested. Call for another date about two or three days later.
Emilia Posted March 18, 2011 Posted March 18, 2011 she was out having a few drinks and now has a hangover. no big deal
Cee Posted March 18, 2011 Posted March 18, 2011 She has a hangover from celebrating on St. Patrick's Day. I wouldn't call her today to see how she feels. I suggest you call her on Sunday or Monday.
yessy21 Posted March 18, 2011 Posted March 18, 2011 Hmmm.... u sound more interested in her than she is in u.
GivenUp0083 Posted March 18, 2011 Posted March 18, 2011 I went on two dates with this girl and all the signs were positive. We kissed a few times and shared a lot. Everything was smooth. I call her last Wednesday and ask her out for Friday. She says she has another meeting at that time and will see if she can arrange it so we decide to talk about it again before Friday. She sounded very enthusiastic about it. Last evening, I call her to set up the date but she does not answer. Then I see on Facebook that she is attending some pubnight. Then this morning, she sends me a text like "Sorry, I feel a bit sick today and I want to stay at home to recover." What is the best course of action to take here? I want to call her and see if she is feeling ok. Should I suggest a new date? I know I should trust her but I had girls bailing out before saying that they are sick so I am somehow unconfident with this when it comes to this stage. Your advice is appreicated. Give her some space. You might be moving too fast. I say wait a week or so for her to contact you. If she wants to truly go out again, she'll call you back. Don't keep contacting her when she says to or to check up on her. Just send a text saying "ok hope you feel better, give me a call sometime next week". And leave it in her court from there.
East7 Posted March 18, 2011 Posted March 18, 2011 She doesn't seem extremely interested...When she puts some distance, be distant too. Keep some mystery, don't be constantly checking her and asking for a date.
fishtaco Posted March 18, 2011 Posted March 18, 2011 Some good advice here. Ask her how she feels, then hit her up later, like some of the posters suggested. And use this opportunity to get some other numbers. You don't know how this one is going to turn out. Don't put all of your eggs in one basket.
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