Author one goal Posted March 22, 2011 Author Posted March 22, 2011 Damn! I got up, drove all the way to school only for the class to be cancelled! I was all pumped up and excited to see what she would say about it. I hope I didn't scare her off lol.
dreamingoftigers Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 So...two years ago you asked out the "hottest chick" and she had a boyfriend. That tends to be what the "hottest chicks" have. And now you have asked out your 11 year your senior teacher and you are wondering if she is too mature for you. Yes. She is. Anyone who emails for a date to their teacher is not mature enough to be dating her. Sorry to be harsh, get out and ask more girls out (face to face, your own age).
betterdeal Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 He likes asking unavailable women. Probably because it will never come to anything so he can continue to live in a world of unrequited love, which is familiar and easy to control. All the imaginary dates and imaginary sex are a lot less unpredictable, uncontrollable than real ones with real people with real minds of their own involved. Probably wants to skip the confusing real bit. Probably can get over his fears by facing them and resolving them rather than projecting them into purposefully doomed pastiches of an attempt to show interest in someone. If you see the world as victims and perpetrators, it's better to be a victim, and manufacturing a situation where you will be rejected ensures you can have the self-pity of self-inflicted victim-hood. In time he'll get tired of this self-sabotaging behaviour. Either he'll lose interest and avoid relationships and sex and what not, or he'll project further onto the women who have the misfortune to be the props in his charades and become bitter towards them, or he'll recognise that he's the one consistent thing in all these non-events and deal with the thing inside him that holds him back from being genuine and unafraid.
Author one goal Posted March 22, 2011 Author Posted March 22, 2011 Well I just emailed her. I had a question about an assignment, and I asked her if I could speak to her after class about the email. I figured it wasn't my best of judgement to ask her out via email, and I want to face her in person like others said and tell her about it and be honest. Hopefully I didn't creep her out when I asked her out by email. Hence why I feel I should talk to her about it.
Author one goal Posted March 23, 2011 Author Posted March 23, 2011 She still hasn't replied to my email yet. She doesn't reply to me anymore I notice even with a class related question. Is she ignoring me you think now after I asked her out? I think it's a little rude IMO.
Author one goal Posted March 23, 2011 Author Posted March 23, 2011 She still hasn't replied back to me. I think thats kinda rude. Tomorrows class is getting to be interesting how she reacts when she sees me.
denise_xo Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 She still hasn't replied back to me. I think thats kinda rude. I think that's kinda professional...
Author one goal Posted March 23, 2011 Author Posted March 23, 2011 I think that's kinda professional... Well I had a class related question and she doesn't reply. Why is that professional for her NOT to reply? What should I expect in class tomorrow?
Author one goal Posted March 24, 2011 Author Posted March 24, 2011 Well class is in the morning. Im a little nervous how it will go.
Cracker Jack Posted March 24, 2011 Posted March 24, 2011 (edited) Well, I hope things go well for you. There'll likely be nothing to come out of this entire matter, but hey, it happens. Try not to be too nervous. Edited March 24, 2011 by Cracker Jack
Eternal Sunshine Posted March 24, 2011 Posted March 24, 2011 She didn't reply because you would take any sort of reply as a sign that she has romantic interest!!!! I have lectured and been in her shoes. And yeah, it's creepy and uncomfortable.
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