Teknoe Posted March 18, 2011 Posted March 18, 2011 (edited) OK, this girl I just met this past weekend showed me ALL the signs she was interested in me. Smiled, eye contact, FB add with a special message (more than just "hey, nice to meet you") So I decided to man up and be direct. I asked her out for the weekend. Said she was busy. I followed up with next weekend? Said she's outta town then but we will find a day. Just bad timing, or is she retracting a bit because I'm coming on too strong? For what it's worth, we have mutual friends and I know for a fact that my girl friends have vouched for me to her, so she has very positive thoughts about me. Edited March 18, 2011 by Teknoe
Lilmisus Posted March 18, 2011 Posted March 18, 2011 Going out of town is definitely a pretty good reason to not go out on a date one day, so I don't know. She definitely seems into you though, so don't just throw the idea out the window of potentially dating her. Wait about a week or so (if she doesn't contact you first), before or after her plans or trip, and tell her that you know she has a busy schedule, but to just call you - give her your number - and let you know when she's free so you guys can set up your date. That way, you've waited long enough to not come across as pushy/desperate, and you've thrown the ball completely in her court to where you don't have to wonder if she's into you or not - since..she'll let you know if and when she calls.
Eddie Edirol Posted March 18, 2011 Posted March 18, 2011 Try during the week, she probably goes out with her friends on the weekends. but I would assume that something you said turned her off. if thats the case, she wasnt really that interested anyway....she might have been looking for an ego boost after someone else ditched her.
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