TJ7777 Posted March 17, 2011 Posted March 17, 2011 Almost two months ago - my bf left me for a woman he was dating before (they had like four dates). He told me he HAS to find out what is there for him. He told me that I'm "easy, comfortable and fun" but she's "exciting". She wasn't interested in him before and now they are together like glue. It's very public and it hurts. I avoid them and the situation as much as I can, but my heart just aches so much. It's embarassing to me and I cannot believe how mean he is being. Additionally - he had done some graphics and pictures for my home business that he wont send to me. It would take an EMAIL and that's it - yet he cannot find time to do this in the two months its been? I intially contacted him about two weeks after the breakup for this and he didn't really respond, then I asked a mutual friend to do it for me so that I wasn't in the picture or appearing like I was trying to make contact with him. Again, very little response to this person - except for one email saying he would send it over (which he cc'd me into and said "I hope you are loving life"). I'm angry. I'm hurt. I don't understand why he has to keep this stuff. I don't understand why he is making his relationship so public and painful. I'm trying to think - it's not about me - it's about him (them), but he knows from a previous relationship of mine that I'm REALLY sensitive about this kind of thing. How can I still miss him so much and why is he being so cruel? It makes no sense! I have completely stepped aside and haven't done ANYTHING to stir the pot. Even when she sent me an email that she was "so sorry" and "hated herself". I didn't even respond to that! And the woman? Ultra high maintenance, seems to be super nice but isn't kinda of girl. It just makes me sick! How do I move on? Should I give up on my pictures and graphics? They cannot be reproduced
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