murah989 Posted March 17, 2011 Posted March 17, 2011 (edited) My ex and I tried to give it another go, but we failed miserably. I came back into her life while she was "Having fun" with someone else. She still loved me, but enjoyed her time with this other dude. We enjoyed a good month together, before she decided that she wanted to romantically distance herself from everyone. Which then turned into distancing herself romantically from *me*. I was the one to call her out on it. I didn't like how she was telling me all these nice things ( I love you, you're so cute, *snuggles* etc etc.), then going over to "hang out" with this other boy-toy. My feelings were being belittled so she could have a good time. She agreed ( Or rather she told me) that we can't do this anymore because it's hurting me....So here I am, doing this whole dating thing again. Ex-gf aside, I did have the pleasure of meeting someone that I'm not sure about. We did have a chance to talk a little. Texts and phone calls have been exchanged. However, I'm worried about a few things. First of all, when I met her she was seeing someone else. I was mostly talking to her because I wanted a friend, but it slowly turned into her bitching about her bf, and then how nice I was (better than bf etc.). They ended up breaking the relationship because she's bi-sexual, and the boyfriend was worried she'd cheat on him...oh and he wanted a three-way ಠ_ಠ. Could I be a rebound for her? They were only dating for two months, but sometimes I would get texts " I wish I had someone to cuddle with". I don't want to imagine someone not being interested in me...but rather just the thought of me. Secondly, she asked me if I was into BDSM. She was very upfront about it; mentioning she likes to be dominant. I however, do NOT like doing that whole bit. I like making love...not torturing my SO. I can deal with these things though. Every person I date is different, and this is no exception. However, I do get quite irked about the fact that she works in one of those super Christian abortion clinics. I'm not to familiar with them, but I have heard that they are not actually abortion clinics or planned parenthood. Rather, they are just fronts for Christian pro-lifers to "pursued" clients to "reconsider" their abortion choices. Can someone please enlighten me on the subject??? Seeing as I've never actually *met* her, I seem to be dooming this before anything even happens. Am I wrong to be so cautious about this???? Or should I trust my instincts based on these and other incidents? Edited March 17, 2011 by murah989
Author murah989 Posted March 17, 2011 Author Posted March 17, 2011 Could really use someones opinion on this. Shameless self bump.
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