ReturnToSender Posted March 16, 2011 Posted March 16, 2011 Back in around Aug, I met a guy through online dating... We went on a few dates and really seemed to hit it off. We did end up sleeping together, and he seemed pretty interested in me as he asked me out to an event that was going to be a couple months down the line then bought advanced tickets to it. We kept in touch every day with email and would wrap the day up with a little phone call to say hi. One nite he didnt return my call, and he didnt reply to the email I sent him the next day. After a few days went by, I sent a text asking him to at least let me know whats up. He replied that some legal issues over the kids came up with his ex and hes going through a rough time, that he was sorry but he cant concentrate on dating right now. At this point, wed been seeing each other for about a month. I told him I hope everything works out, and that if things calm down and hed like to get back in touch to please do. We didnt talk again til last week when he emailed to say that the issues he had were all resolved and asked me how Im doing. We've been emailing and its all been really friendly and casual...just talking about work and the kids etc. I really was very interested in this guy, but not sure what to think seeing how hes hasnt exactly come out with why he got back in touch. Im supposing he has some sort of intentions but hes not really indicating wanting to meet up.. So I figure I may as well ask right? But how do I come out with it without coming off any sort of way. Also, any thoughts on the situation itself would be great. Thanks!
Cee Posted March 16, 2011 Posted March 16, 2011 He's back for sex. No question about it. I've had guys pull the fade and then a couple of months later send a "What's up?" text. This seems to happen a good bit with online dating. Keep this guy on the back, back burner. Better yet, forget him altogether.
Jack & Coke Posted March 16, 2011 Posted March 16, 2011 To be honest, you're one of the women on his roster that he keeps in contact with for p*ssy. Since it took so long for him to get back with you, you're probably not very high on the roster. The separation grew, so in order to keep you on the roster, he reached back out, so that whenever he's in the need for some sex he can call you up and get it. I wouldn't be thinking relationship if I were you. Whether you want to continue being on the roster and having some fun is your choice, but just don't expect full-time girl attention.
Author ReturnToSender Posted March 17, 2011 Author Posted March 17, 2011 Well..I wasnt exactly on a roster I dont think....we only had sex twice and all the other times he took me out for dinner and we talked every day. But I do have to say my friends all have a mind that he just met someone else, dropped me to pursue something with her it didnt work out so hes figuring he'll give it another shot with me...or at the least have me to hang with til something else comes along. All the same yeah I dont doubt the sex angle in there too. Either way, not good...and I agree...6 months is a long time, if he had real interest..maybe a few weeks, or getting in touch every so often to say hi or something so I wouldnt forget him, but nothing til now. Yup, Ill pass on this one. Thanks...that really did help
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