Mixed28 Posted March 16, 2011 Posted March 16, 2011 http://ezinearticles.com/?How-To-Get-Over-Short-Term-Relationship-Break-Ups&id=1170737 Break up are always painful, but it's not just the long-term relationships that cause such anguish. Short-term ones hurt in a different way. Their brief arc tends to be more intense and passionate. Think of a rollercoaster, filled with anticipation, exhilaration, speed, highs and temporary lulls. As in the beginnings of many relationships, hope and hormones are at high levels. There is little time to build a history of fights and difficulties. Consequently, rejection can feel deep and more acute. After all, a person has been rejected long before his or her self has been fully expressed. A common complaint is that a person feels that they haven't been given a fair chance. The rejected person thinks, "If I've been turned down before they knew my very private issues, then I must really not be very acceptable." Also, because it's tough enough to find someone who seems like a good match, when that someone seems to reject a person so quickly, it can feel as though the pool of The Right One has dramatically shrunk.
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