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Ok this is my story. Started going out with this really nice guy.....About 2 months ago....This is the firtst time I dated or went out since my previous relationship ended which i was in for 14 years. Anyways this guy seemed really nice, was thoughtful, respectful and all that. There was an age difference of 8 years which we never spoke about me being older than him. We both have children mine are over 6 and he has a two year old. We seemed to hit it off really good, we had alot in common, neither of us had dated anyone else recently. The problem started a few weeks ago. Mabey he started getting comfortable....started talking more about his x and how mych he hated her...keep in mind me and my x get along well..we have kids together. Well he tells me how much he cannot stand his x, gets a letter in the mail stating she wants more child support....keep in mind this woman sees the kid 6 hours a week...other than that he has her all the time...because he states mom doesnt want to spend time with her. Well one day he calls me and says his x wants him to help her fix her car and he tells me that he said he would as long as he gets a piece of ass.....what is this? Totally disrespectful....is this an age thing...he is 33...I was stunned when he told me this....oh yeah he doesnt call but he text all the time.....he knew i was pissed off and called me right away...we talkd and i let him know that i thought that was disrespectful. anyways come to find out his x is 22 years old....she was actually a foster child in his home...his parents were foster parents to teenage girls....so yeah he hooked up with her when she was 18...i started to think about this and got disgusted....though its not blood related it still sound shady....he had never told me about this but i found out through his cousin she is the one that introduced us. I thought the best thing to do was to call it off with him...dont think i could look at him the same....Just a little down....wondering if i made the right decision....We ended on really bad terms....he no longer text or calls......

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