AriesGal Posted March 16, 2011 Posted March 16, 2011 I went to a party two weeks ago and this guy came & talk to me. He danced with me, we hit of off well and we exchanged numbers. Then I also sorta introduced him to my group of friends who were there with me, and he introduced his friend as well. We all became friends, and we hung out after that party in group a few times. I was attracted to him since the first time I saw him, and I love his company as a friend. But now I m quite confused since he hasn't asked me out on a date but we all hung out a few times as group since after that party and ofcoz we all had great time. Sometimes I wonder whether he was just being friendly. Every time he saw me, he complimented on my looks (which he didn't for my other girl friends). But when we were in the group, his attention was focused more on my friend (girl), and he was teasing her alot (not in a flirty way), and she was also teasing him, and i find that most of his attention are on her and not on me. I kind of feel slightly jealous inside but I did not show it at all. Whenever they started teasing each other, I just kept quiet and smiled. But whenever I was about to conclude that he is not into me, he will do something to confuse me. When we all went for the movie (twice), both times he made sure to choose the seat next to me, our arms were sorta touching. Like after we all hung out, and after I go home, he would always text me and said he had a great time. And then this guy texts me many times a day and called me almost every day. But just when I start to think maybe he likes me, then i found out, he also calls my friend (though I m not sure whether it is as often as he calls me). So I dont know if he is into me or if he is planning to ask me out on a date soon.. I started to feel like i got a tough competition with other girls... I m not planning to fight for it though if he doesn't think that I m the only one who he wants to date. I have pride & ego thing going. that's why I don't wanna make the first move. One more thing, yes few days ago he told me, "I hope I m not disturbing you alot my texting many times every day, it's just that I feel good talking to you. You are an amazing person" What do you think? Is he into me? is he playing any games? Notes: we both are in our late 20's.
trios Posted March 16, 2011 Posted March 16, 2011 I do think he is into you....Sounds like it to me....Take things slow.....I went thru a breakup just a few days ago and you know why....I took it tooooo fast....I was totally into him.....We talked about taking it slow and i didnt....now i could kick myself beacuse i know i lost this guy for good....So my advice take it slow, become friends and if it was meant to be it will be....Good Luck!!!!!
youaretheone Posted March 16, 2011 Posted March 16, 2011 It sounds like he is into both of you and trying to keep both of you in his pocket in case one of you gives up. He might be trying to make you jealous.
Author AriesGal Posted March 17, 2011 Author Posted March 17, 2011 Thanks Trios: I m trying to take slow and wait. I really like him and I think he's worth the wait. Just that I would like to know if he likes me coz I don't wanna be lead on or get mixed signals. Yup, that's what we are doing now, became friends and see how things go. youaretheone: I don't think he is attracted to her in that way. I mean my friend is a very nice and sweet girl, but the way he was talking & teasing is non-romantic way, he was teasing & making fun of her. I was jealous because he was giving her more attention than me when we hung out together. It make it seem like they are closer. The thing is my friend is extremely talkative, & so is he. I m not as talkative as them. And when we were in group, they both are the people who talk more than me and his friend. It's not that i was totally quiet. I did talk as well, but she was talking too much & I just didn't wanna compete for attention this much. It sounded pathetic to do that.
Eddie Edirol Posted March 17, 2011 Posted March 17, 2011 Either hes not into you or her would have asked you out already... Or he doesnt get the vibe from you that you are into him. You have to make some kind of move to show him that youre into him.
Author AriesGal Posted March 18, 2011 Author Posted March 18, 2011 Yeah, u r right.. I m dropping subtle hints that i like him. I hope he notices it. Even my friend notices it. Last night she admitted that she likes him too. But she knows he is interested in me, and she knows i like him thats why she will just let it go. She encourages me to go ahead with him.
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