quietGuy13 Posted March 16, 2011 Posted March 16, 2011 I'm wondering if i should get into a long distance. Besides i'm already prety old(30s) and does't seem i'll be getting the girl of my dreams.. rather i'll die trying and so that would mean i would have no one ever. Also, although i've met nice girls recently, they're not gonnabe my GF. they're just friends. well my last option is do i have a LONGDISTANCE realtionship OR do i die with having nobody ever. I would say longdistance would be better than nothing ever in my life. but i dont know
Pyro Posted March 16, 2011 Posted March 16, 2011 if she is worth it then go for it. I am marrying someone who has lived on a different continent than me her whole life. Definitely worth it though.
blackmagik Posted March 16, 2011 Posted March 16, 2011 No offense but I think you are really trying too hard. Every time in my life I have dated in a LTR they have come when I wasn't expecting it. I don't mean give up trying to find someone, just give up trying to force every girl you meet to be your girlfriend.
Lilmisus Posted March 16, 2011 Posted March 16, 2011 I'm wondering if i should get into a long distance. Besides i'm already prety old(30s) and does't seem i'll be getting the girl of my dreams.. rather i'll die trying and so that would mean i would have no one ever. Also, although i've met nice girls recently, they're not gonnabe my GF. they're just friends. well my last option is do i have a LONGDISTANCE realtionship OR do i die with having nobody ever. I would say longdistance would be better than nothing ever in my life. but i dont know If it's with the right girl and if it feels right, then yes long distance is worth it. If it's with the wrong girl and doesn't feel right then no, it wouldn't be worth it. You're only in your 30's, not in your 90's, you still have time to meet a great gal, don't give up just yet. And by all means, don't settle for less than what you deserve. I'd rather die looking for the perfect guy then settle for much less than what I deserved and wondering "what if I didn't give up looking?"
East7 Posted March 16, 2011 Posted March 16, 2011 LDR is worth only if the woman is really into you and looking forward to be with you. If she is playing games to get your attention without plans to be with you in a reasonable future, than it is a time waste. Not to forget that LDR is very frustrating because you permanently miss the other person and can't see/meet when you want to. There are also fidelity issues, you don't know what your LDR partner does with her life. As for the time-limit, I have always put a 1 year limit to plan something serious like settling together unless it is not worth the wait. Meanwhile, unless you live like a recluse or in a remote place, just take a walk and see how many amazing, available and physically present woman are around you.
Pyro Posted March 16, 2011 Posted March 16, 2011 There are also fidelity issues, you don't know what your LDR partner does with her life. It is only an issue if you allow it to be. Everything else I agree with.
Yelle Posted March 16, 2011 Posted March 16, 2011 I would say longdistance would be better than nothing ever in my life. but i dont know If she is committed as much as you are then go for it.
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