StrongBad Posted March 15, 2011 Posted March 15, 2011 Hey all, I'm a longtime lurker who wanted to pose a scenario with a girl I'm dating that has been confusing me. We met out at a club one night and developed instant rapport and hooked up. I asked her out shortly thereafter and she agreed. We had a great time and went out a couple more times. The last time we went out we had sex. I thought it was great and thought she did to. She said she orgasmed and even said "congratulations that wasn't fake". She spent the night and left the following morning. Now it's over a week later and she has seemingly disappeared. I texted her on Wednesday of last week to ask what her weekend plans were and haven't heard from her since. I don't understand the pullback because everything was going so smoothly before. Any insight or advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
whichwayisup Posted March 15, 2011 Posted March 15, 2011 The last time we went out we had sex. I thought it was great and thought she did to. She said she orgasmed and even said "congratulations that wasn't fake". She spent the night and left the following morning. Wow, that's a very odd thing to say.. How was she when she left? Did she kiss you goodbye, or bring up when you two would see eachother again? Since you have tried to reach her and she's not replied back yet, I would let it go. As much as you deserve an explanation, don't expect one if she just disappears completely. I have no idea why people do this, even more so since you two did have sex! It's just rude and mean to do to someone.
Author StrongBad Posted March 16, 2011 Author Posted March 16, 2011 Actually, I did leave out a pretty large piece of information now that I think about it some more. The day after the night we had sex I did send a brief text saying I had a great time last night. She replied that she did too but was currently feeling under the weather. She later explained she had a fever. Then a few days later I texted her asking if she was feeling better and what her weekend plans were. I haven't had a reply since. Does that change any interpretations?
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