andym89 Posted March 15, 2011 Posted March 15, 2011 So my girlfriend just broke up with me on Thursday. She told me that she just has to do it. She said she had been falling out of love since the beginning of February. We are 500 miles away but I am transferring to a school that is closer to hers next year. She told me that the distance, the "drama" about the future ( telling her mom that I got into the school), her family, and stress has made her lose the love. We talked the other day and she told me that she is just confused right now. She has been talking to my ex since end of January and that kind of worries me too. I just want to get her back and for her to come to her senses. Please Help
GaelicSoul Posted March 15, 2011 Posted March 15, 2011 Hi Andy, Sorry to hear your going through this, my best advice is to leave her alone, give her space and no contact. She sounds very confused and you cant do anything to change her mind at the moment. If she contacts you let us know. Dont try and think about it, keep yourself busy with your hobbies and get out with your friends. GS
Author andym89 Posted March 15, 2011 Author Posted March 15, 2011 We have been talking since the whole break up... I have tried the NC thing but it lasts for about 3 hours.
Author andym89 Posted March 17, 2011 Author Posted March 17, 2011 Alright so I started no contact today and it has been very tough. Her birthday is on Sunday, should I tell her happy birthday or stick with the no contact?
ConflictedGuy27 Posted March 17, 2011 Posted March 17, 2011 Alright so I started no contact today and it has been very tough. Her birthday is on Sunday, should I tell her happy birthday or stick with the no contact? stick with NC no matter what. trust me, it'll preserve what little dignity you have left. and make no mistake, that speech she gave you about being confused, fallen out of love, blah blah... that means she's f*cking another guy (and she will be on her birthday, as well); I guarantee it, bro. NC at all costs. you need to stop taking her crap, because she's very likely lying to you with EVERY WORD she says to you. get upset! shes on her back getting boned and loving every second of it, meanwhile you sit by your phone listening to slow jams and posting online?? that's crap, buddy. give your ex what she deserves -- NO CONTACT! and call up the fellas and go out, and/or start going out by yourself. you must.
TryTryAgain Posted March 17, 2011 Posted March 17, 2011 Her birthday is on Sunday, should I tell her happy birthday or stick with the no contact? I had the same predicament about a month and a half ago. I didn't wish her happy birthday on her birthday. I caved about 5 days later and sent her a happy "belated" birthday text. I was expecting at least a thank you or an acknoweldgement. She didn't even respond, and that hurt more because I wasn't expecting that. Nothing good can come out of wishing her a happy birthday. My advice is don't do it.
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