Layzie89 Posted March 16, 2011 Posted March 16, 2011 whew... i just erased her and her best friend off my fb... i feel sad now whats wrong.....? Don't worry shawn it gets easier in time man. You're sad now but imagine how much more hurt you'd be if you don't delete her and eventually you start seeing flirty posts on her wall or pictures with another guy. You did the right thing, like i said just give it time amd you'll realize it's for the best.
smudge21 Posted March 16, 2011 Posted March 16, 2011 whew... i just erased her and her best friend off my fb... i feel sad now whats wrong.....? Right there with you - deleted her and her sisters only on Monday and kinda' feel indifferent about it. In a way, it's like a wieghts been lifted; I'm no longer seeing her life and therefore I'm gone from it. That said, I know I still miss/love her so much, and at some point I know that temptation to check her page out will come up (she has it open), but when that day comes I just know what will happen: I'll check it, see that she's fine and not a care in the world, and I'll feel terrible, so that thought is keep me away, for now.
Rose T Posted March 16, 2011 Posted March 16, 2011 whew... i just erased her and her best friend off my fb... i feel sad now whats wrong.....? Way to go Shawn!!! the fightback starts here... you'll be feeling like your old self in no time. Seriously, you can do this. We're proud of you.
PegNosePete Posted March 16, 2011 Posted March 16, 2011 Nice one dude. Yes you want NC to make yourself better. If in time she wants you back then you want to be a strong man not a pining lost puppy dog. If she decides she doesn't then you'll be a strong man for the next person. Win-win
Author shawn923 Posted March 16, 2011 Author Posted March 16, 2011 Way to go Shawn!!! the fightback starts here... you'll be feeling like your old self in no time. Seriously, you can do this. We're proud of you. thanx........
Author shawn923 Posted March 16, 2011 Author Posted March 16, 2011 Nice one dude. Yes you want NC to make yourself better. If in time she wants you back then you want to be a strong man not a pining lost puppy dog. If she decides she doesn't then you'll be a strong man for the next person. Win-win K... im doin my best to avoid her at all cost in school as well. hopefully this'll make her come back... if not, im in for one hell of a upgrade
Yelle Posted March 16, 2011 Posted March 16, 2011 Deleting your ex and her buddy from fb is the best thing you can do right now. You don't want to deal with that mess and besides, there's always someone better out there. Don't worry too much about them. I know it's hard at first, but you will recover in no time. She's an ex for a reason.
Author shawn923 Posted March 16, 2011 Author Posted March 16, 2011 UPDATE: i totally avoided her so far today... until i was in the lunchroom, and she walked into there cuz she musta left class late. as soon as i saw her we made eye contact for like a split second then i went back to my laptop... as she was sittin down across the room, i was packing up and leaving... i left the lunch room immediately and went to class early NOW... AS SOON as i get to class, SHE texts me! Saying "As soon as I come you leave".... ive yet to reply. it happend literally 10 mins ago. what to think of this???
Yelle Posted March 16, 2011 Posted March 16, 2011 UPDATE: i totally avoided her so far today... until i was in the lunchroom, and she walked into there cuz she musta left class late. as soon as i saw her we made eye contact for like a split second then i went back to my laptop... as she was sittin down across the room, i was packing up and leaving... i left the lunch room immediately and went to class early NOW... AS SOON as i get to class, SHE texts me! Saying "As soon as I come you leave".... ive yet to reply. it happend literally 10 mins ago. what to think of this??? Keep avoiding her and don't reply to her text messages. She's trying to get your attention.
Stilicho Posted March 16, 2011 Posted March 16, 2011 keeo NC man, i went NC on my ex for a month, and it was great for me, than i got sucked into lc with her for the past month and a half, eating her trail of breadcrumbs, but today, i told her im done talking to her. and reinstated NC.
PegNosePete Posted March 17, 2011 Posted March 17, 2011 UPDATE: i totally avoided her so far today... until i was in the lunchroom, and she walked into there cuz she musta left class late. as soon as i saw her we made eye contact for like a split second then i went back to my laptop... as she was sittin down across the room, i was packing up and leaving... i left the lunch room immediately and went to class early NOW... AS SOON as i get to class, SHE texts me! Saying "As soon as I come you leave".... ive yet to reply. it happend literally 10 mins ago. what to think of this??? Well done dude handled perfectly Just delete that text and don't reply. She wants attention. More will come; you know what to do with them.
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