spackle Posted March 15, 2011 Posted March 15, 2011 Angry at him & angry at me for falling for it. NC for pretty much 5/6months. It was difficult as I'd never gone through something like this with anyone. I'm doing fine, feel like I've moved on then I get a 'hi how are you doing? x' text. I feel strong so reply....4 months on after pretty much DAILY texting & a fun day of yes more texting that got a little flirty, he pulls his vanishing act and I feel like a dumb **** for thinking I felt nothing so could handle contact. Being re-labelled friend when I never was nor wanted. People are selfish. I was arrogant to think he was interested, he has his reasons, probably the usual, be friends then I don't have to admit treating you bad. So back to a forced NC and I won't chase. Sorry it's a bit of a ramble but I can't sleep and wanted to get some of this out of my head. Don't be lured in when they reach out. Nine times out of ten they're doing it for themselves, they're getting their ego stroked, you won't get answers and you won't get closure.
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