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So why do so many guys go to bars to meet women there?


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I think the point of my story sailed over your head.

 

She wasn't quality at all. Doesn't matter if I met her in a supermarket or a nightclub. A good number of the women in bars are just tramps. The guys tend towards terrible as well.

 

When I go to bars I'm just there to kick it with my friends... maybe sing karaoke so bad they turn off my mic... stuff like that. Meeting women there is a joke... and in fact barflys like that can put you off women as a whole. November I noticed this guys GF take off with one of the bar regulars for about 20 minutes. They both came back and the guy was bragging to us later that he got a BJ in his car and her number.

 

No I got the point of your story and what you think of her.

 

Anyway, thats why I pay no attention to guys in bars...because they do expect women to be like that, to make out with them in the corner or slip away for a bj like you gave in your examples to what you and this guy do with women you meet at bars...Ive heard male friends with plenty enough stories of their own that I dont trust a guys intentions. I hang out with my friends and pay no mind to any guy who wants to talk to me.

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I met my husband in a bar. It was the first time I'd been in one for about 8 years. I'd been dragged there by a friend to celebrate our birthdays. I was about as interested in going as I was in having a tooth pulled. And it was ten months later that I slept with him.

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I think the difference night-life(bars etc) vs. everyday life is :

 

- People have less stress than in everyday life circumstances - They are more distracted.

- Many (not all) women ALSO go to meet guys, even if they say they are there just for fun.. thus both genders are in "chasing" mode.

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Bars give people a chance to hang out and associate with each other in a party mood.
This was exactly what I thought too. Everyone's out having a good time, socializing and all. It's a light, carefree, happy atmosphere.
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