Saphira Posted March 15, 2011 Posted March 15, 2011 For those of you who have kept up with my ex-relationship conversations here is the latest! Today i got a call from the ex, i did not answer, my bestie told me not to. But he left a message. at first it was silly but around the end he sounded serious. this is what the messaged was Hey babe, someone has a birthday this weekend (mine is sunday), you will be older then me again! hahahaha but only by a few months. and what i lack in age i make up for in awesomeness lol. well anyway, i get off work at 10 or 11. if you are still awake hit me up so we can talk, ok love you, ttyl bye. We havent spoken since last Thursday, 3/10/11 I was kind of surprised by him refering to me as babe again. and the ending with i love you. (although he has said he will always love me lol) but the last few times we have talked he has called me strictly by my name. So it was a little surprise to hear the whole babe again (not saying i hated it :/ ) Should i call him tonight? whats that mean? any guys out there who knows what that means? I havent listed the whole history because i have other posts that sums everything up. But this is the latest. and i would love some feed back before 11 tonight (when he gets off and asked me to call him). Thanks!
name witheld Posted March 15, 2011 Posted March 15, 2011 Don't call him. You weren't in/busy etc didn't get the message. If he calls back you can answer to see what he wants but it sounds like a sex tactic (especially if he left you). There is a risk in talking to him as it sounds like you still care about him, that makes you vulnerable. He knows this. If he cares about you good, but make him work for you to prove it. If he doesn't, ignore him. He will soon show his true colours.
Author Saphira Posted March 15, 2011 Author Posted March 15, 2011 I doubt it is a sex tactic. Im still a virgin lol. but on the other stuff. i get what you mean. Thanks
Author Saphira Posted March 15, 2011 Author Posted March 15, 2011 well he didnt answer anyway :l oh well lol
Layzie89 Posted March 15, 2011 Posted March 15, 2011 I was going to say that he's probably just trying to have sex with you again but you said you're still a virgin so I don't really know. Maybe he wants to hang out to make sure you're not getting some birthday sex from someone else? No matter the case, selfish amd almost rude of him to be calling you babe and talkimg to you as if the breakup didn't even happen. I wouldn't entertain it.
Author Saphira Posted March 15, 2011 Author Posted March 15, 2011 yes, i thought it was a little messed up to be saying those things too. Well i guess it doesnt matter. I Called him when he got off and he didnt answer or call me back.
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