roman_pavluchenko Posted March 14, 2011 Posted March 14, 2011 Well before i dated this girl i was pretty confident she liked my best friend, but he didn't agree. She was always around him, always hitting him/teasing him and talking to him, but i eventually got angry and asked her out and she said yes. Dumped me 2 months later for being too clingy. 1 month after the break-up she was apparently still "cut up" over the break-up, who knows what that means? But it's been 6 weeks now and she is really close with my best friend. Might i add that while we were dating she had little or no contact with my best friend at all. Now 6 weeks down the track, they are always contacting eachother through text and facebook, frequently trying to organise group things (we have a group of about 9 close friends) but are also now doing things alone (going out for coffee and stuff) Does this kind of sound like a rebound, i mean it makes no sense. She said she fell for me because i was the nicest and sweetest guy she had ever met. My best friend is the complete opposite, he is loud, abnoxious, swears, relatively agressive, doesn't really respect women he always points out their littlest flaws, he gets drunk and abuses her and at one stage, a few days before she broke up with me he was drunk and said to me "******* hell, you've changed so much since dating her, can't you see the ugly slut is controlling you, just ******* dump her already" So it doesn't really make sense to me why he would like her if he feels this way...and why she would like him when they are exact opposites.
JVWood Posted March 14, 2011 Posted March 14, 2011 You can supposedly look at it in 2 ways. First way, she might be going for your best friend to get back at you, and if you shown some jealousy, then she would know that you still care for her in that way. So even if he is the opposite to you, this might be the best way for her to get back at you. Secondly, your best friend could already have a crush on her anyways, and told you, you should dump her 'cause she's an ugly controlling sort of girl, so that you would break up with her by feeding you ideas, so that your friend can get with her. If he thought that about her, I don't think he will be getting that friendly with her. I can't really see the situation with my own eyes, so it's hard to judge what is happening, maybe give some slight thought to both of those scenarios and see if any of them fit. As I don't know, I might be wrong in both ways.
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