sniffys Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 [url=http://advice.eharmony.com/dating/13-things-men-are-too-embarrassed-tell-you][/url]http://advice.eharmony.com/dating/13-things-men-are-too-embarrassed-tell-you im sorry its in slide form instead of bulleted. i hate these slide things.. but basically i read on the comments portion below a lot of men are agreeing. theres one that caught my eye, it said "we will slay dragons for you if you just give us space" - is this accurate? i mean how much space anyway. not call u for a few days or answer ur calls? yeah sometimes i overdo it. also would be nice to hear other womens thoughts regarding this, does it seem unfair-ish?
crossfitter Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 re: slaying dragons, I think it's meaning, "Don't smother us, and we'll be happy to be your knight in shining armor." IMO, there's a subtle medium between not smothering and not answering calls for days. Somewhere in there is the point where I'd tie on the plate armor and go take the trash out.
somedude81 Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 Yeah, that seems pretty accurate. Women take notice.
Jynxx Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 Spot on. Should be mandatory lecture for every female.
MrNate Posted March 14, 2011 Posted March 14, 2011 Haha the dragon slaying thing. I would almost say its more like most men would slay a dragon before talking to a woman they actually find beautiful lol. But, the article is good. I'm guilty of the food/stomach thing, it wouldn't necessarily win me over, but MAN that would be massive brownie points.
jane100 Posted March 14, 2011 Posted March 14, 2011 from a female perspective - most of the things seem true and reasonably sweet. i am not sure about the "initiation" gripe though, for me its a great privilege i.e. he gets to do what he likes and has a companion!
Cee Posted March 14, 2011 Posted March 14, 2011 I loved reading that. It resonated with my experience with my boyfriend, who is currently at home in his man cave after helping me buy a futon at IKEA yesterday. I am leaving him in peace for a few days. Much deserved peace. IKEA is scary
lenny Posted March 14, 2011 Posted March 14, 2011 From my female perspective this does accurately describe my man. Even the slay dragons thing. He has his own activities and likes to have alone time and I don't get involved in them at all. This is one of the top things he appreciates about me.
runner Posted March 14, 2011 Posted March 14, 2011 i'm pretty open about liking to be fed- no shame in it.i allude to sex whenever i want; never been apprehensive about it; of course i'll gauge a woman's prudishness first.this is true with me, yet again i fail to see the shame in admitting it openly.i could give a crap if a woman found me poor/wealthy.this one is just spineless patheticism.another stupid filler slide.this is just lame.i find no shame in dumping a girl who isn't meeting me half way.i allow people to fight their own battles and never assume it's my responsibility to fix it- to do otherwise is a bit arrogant IMO.again- why is this embarrasing to admit ?i will bite back, and i don't care how hot she looks naked.oh brother.men live longer than women ? i've always thought it was the other way around. whoever wrote this is an idiot and just needed to cycle the sites adverts
welikeincrowds Posted March 14, 2011 Posted March 14, 2011 We’d like to talk about sex early, because it is important to us, but don’t really know how. (2/13) Whoa, speak for yourself bro. I guess this must be because eharmony is largely targeted at the Christians. Within that realm there are people who are either timid or restrictive about discussing sex.
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