orlando_bloom_is_hot Posted March 31, 2004 Posted March 31, 2004 ok u know how they say to do the "no contact" thing with the ex? well what if the ex who broke up with you, breaks the no contact thing via online instant messenger? if anyone of you here knows my story, i was in a 2 year relationship with my ex Ralph, i got dumped 11 months ago by him for his co-worker and 7 months ago Ralph created a fake screen name to talk to me with, (thinking i don't know it's him) he tells me his name is "Jesse" online and always wants to talk...so what's the deal? i did the no contact thing to hope he would come to his senses if he was just left alone...is he finally missing me now because he realizes that the grass wasn't greener on the other side? when he first left me for her, he didn't want to talk to me anymore because he had a new gf... so why did he contradict himself by contacting me under his new alias?
Author orlando_bloom_is_hot Posted March 31, 2004 Author Posted March 31, 2004 ok u know how they say to do the "no contact" thing with the ex? well what if the ex who broke up with you, breaks the no contact thing via online instant messenger? if anyone of you here knows my story, i was in a 2 year relationship with my ex Ralph, i got dumped 11 months ago by him for his co-worker and 7 months ago Ralph created a fake screen name to talk to me with, (thinking i don't know it's him) he tells me his name is "Jesse" online and always wants to talk...so what's the deal? i did the no contact thing to hope he would come to his senses if he was just left alone...is he finally missing me now because he realizes that the grass wasn't greener on the other side? when he first left me for her, he didn't want to talk to me anymore because he had a new gf... so why did he contradict himself by contacting me under his new alias?
Author orlando_bloom_is_hot Posted March 31, 2004 Author Posted March 31, 2004 we used the same email account for a while, he used that email address to create this new screen name...i saw the confirmation email from aol saying this new name had been created.. he quickly deleted the confirmation emails..but i read them before he had a chance to...silly fool, im always a step a head..
UCFKevin Posted March 31, 2004 Posted March 31, 2004 HAHAHAHAHA! What an IDIOT. I bet he's trying to find out if you're seeing anyone.
magda Posted March 31, 2004 Posted March 31, 2004 Maybe he broke up with the new girl? I honestly can't think why anyone would do something so lame and sneaky.... unless they are truly lame and sneaky...
dixiepix Posted March 31, 2004 Posted March 31, 2004 He definitely broke the no contact rule. He is likely checking on you to find out what is going on in your life. Either that or he has grown quite bored with the new gf; maybe both. Either way, I'd have fun with the messaging thing. He would get the message that I was over him, whether I was or not; I'd bring it up using his real name in idle conversation. I'd make sure he knew I was having the time of my life since being dumped. You only live once, live wisely.
Author orlando_bloom_is_hot Posted April 1, 2004 Author Posted April 1, 2004 he keeps asking where i work, for new photos and questions like "how many guys have u been with"? if he didnt want to ever talk to me again (like he said when we broke up) we did he make this new sn to use on me?
UCFKevin Posted April 1, 2004 Posted April 1, 2004 How about just blocking him? Either that or bluff and say you've been with ten guys in the last few days?
Author orlando_bloom_is_hot Posted April 1, 2004 Author Posted April 1, 2004 i dont want to block him..i miss him...4 years of knowing him..2 together..i miss him and wish we could be friends again.
befuddled11 Posted April 1, 2004 Posted April 1, 2004 Orlando, You posted 2 threads about this situation within the past 2 weeks, in 2 different forums. You received 4+ pages of responses. What is the point of posting yet again, asking for the same advice, when you've obviously made up your mind to ignore the advice you were given before? What is it that you're hoping we'll all write for you? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?threadid=35041
Author orlando_bloom_is_hot Posted April 2, 2004 Author Posted April 2, 2004 no....i'm asking a (((QUESTION))))...if no contact applys here or not. so if my question bothers u, then dont read it..k?
Just Visiting Posted April 2, 2004 Posted April 2, 2004 Yes, he broke the "no contact" rule. He just did it under a different name. Pretty immature don't you think? Get it out in the open by saying that you know who he really is, and if he wants to talk then talk. A lot of ppl don't like to admit that they have messed up. So they find other ways to buffer their behaviour. Maybe he wants to apologize or to play more head games, no one really knows except him. So rather than play along with the cat & mouse game, just say that you are on to him and take it from there. You deserve to be treated better than that.
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