irc333 Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 ...or played phone tag/played games or whatever....but, when they actually date, or even more...get married.....can you gauge how a woman treats other men she's dated (like crap) to the fact the man she married, and wonder how she treats HER man/husband? I had recently learned of a woman who got married rather recently. She had a reputation of playing games, blowing men off, etc etc...you know the drill happens with both men and women. I often hear male friends complain about a certain woman if we all know her, "Oh yeah, she stood me up, blah blah blah, you" another guy would say, "Yeah, you can't rely on her for anything." But, what's scarey is, she got married. This makes me think, "Hm, how does she treat her husband?" Kind of makes ya think? My theory is, she only treats men in a respectful manner, if she's INTO them? Or does that really matter? When I hear stories, where someone has built up a reputation of blowing people off, and they FINALLY get involved with someone, is this new S.O. in for a rude awakening? But, really, a person should respect another person across the board, right? Wether you're into them or not?
Mrlonelyone Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 Think about it this way. Look at all the proverbs and sayings that have been pased down. How many of those are about how much people change? The more things change the more they stay the same. A leopard never changes it's spots. You can't turn a h0 into a housewife. etc. etc. Your instinct is right. Just because she married the guy that does not mean she has magically become more reliable. Some other thing can happen to transform her...like having children...or not. Some people who are total flakes have kids then experience real responsibility and it changes them... some people never change.
welikeincrowds Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 Think about it this way. Look at all the proverbs and sayings that have been pased down. How many of those are about how much people change? A woman's vengeance knows no bounds. A woman only keeps a secret what she does not know. An eel's held by the tail surer than a woman. Never trust a woman who mentions her virtue. A man without ambition is like a woman without looks. A woman without a man is like a garden without a fence. When towards the Devil's House we tread, woman's a thousand steps ahead. (My my Goethe, you sure knew how to write.) When a woman thinks by herself, she thinks of evil. Man without woman, is head without body; woman without man, is body without head. A fair woman without virtue is like palled wine. It is easier to guard a bag of fleas than a woman. And my personal favorite, "The only good woman is a dead woman." Or, was it woman? Maybe it was "nigger"? No, "Indian", it was definitely "Indian". Actually, given what we know about proverbs, it's probably all three, right? etc. etc. Your instinct is right. Centuries of trustworthy proverbs will tell you all you need to know about women.
Jack & Coke Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 There's two possible scenarios that played out: A. She is manipulative and drama filled, and this attitude has carried over into her marriage. She runs over her husband or gives him constant headaches with her game playing. OR B. She met a guy who liked her, and at some point she tested him with her little games. He called her on her sh*t and put her in her place. This peaked her attraction in him, because she met a guy who wouldn't put up with being treated like a doormat, so she fell in line. Being outgamed can be a huge source of attraction for a woman, especially a woman who likes playing games. I'm willing to bet it boils down to one of these two scenarios. Sometimes if you man up and "pass" those little tests, the entire dynamic changes.
Jack & Coke Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 I have went out with girls like this. One in particular stands out because she was upfront with me. She actually told me she liked me because I always called her out on her bull**** and didn't put up with it. We actually still see each other from time to time. Yeah, man definitely. Sometimes all you have to do is be a guy that won't get run over and she'll eat out of your hand. So many guys try to be appeasing or Mr. Friendly so it makes you stand out also.
Author irc333 Posted March 14, 2011 Author Posted March 14, 2011 Depends, or she'll dump ya, until she'll a find a guy that can eat out the palm of her hand, that's how it's been in this day and age. lol I have went out with girls like this. One in particular stands out because she was upfront with me. She actually told me she liked me because I always called her out on her bull**** and didn't put up with it. We actually still see each other from time to time.
Star Gazer Posted March 14, 2011 Posted March 14, 2011 I've blown off guys in the past, but I've never treated my boyfriends poorly. People disrespect things/people they don't value.
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