exoduse22 Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 (edited) I know you guys might think I'm Emo hah, but I'll need all the help I can get as I feel more confused than I ever did before with so many things in my mind. - I am 16 my 3rd year in high school and currently my summer vacation heading to my 4th year. a.) I always have the feeling that when my friend does not reply, I feel real bad and think that they hate me. I know everyone has their own things to do and cannot stay with you all the time and I am fine with that, but on some cases they don't reply on times they should and it scares me I said something wrong as sometimes I am not too close to those people yet. b.) I realized my bestest best friend has been different lately. I don't know if it is me or he really is changing, but no matter how long we have been together I still do not understand what goes on his head and something really tells me he isn't how he used to be. I feel he is lonely which is why he is changing and I am also friends with his friends and I am not sure if he is finding me as a nuisance, but as I said I really cannot read him he seems to be so good at hiding things even I, his best friend and cousin, do now know almost anything about his true self after 10 years. c.) People change especially in our age and I am really changing on how I see things real fast in just this one year I realized so much things. I noticed the more things I knew about people the less I understood and these things overwhelm me and gets me to think about how different people are and makes me real confused. d.) What are friends for? What are true friends? What causes friendships to fall apart? I'd really appreciate help from you guys, thanks! My 2 teachers said to me before the school year ended: Trust and trust people over and over again - this line reassured me of my trust issues. I could not trust almost anyone I felt being deceived all the time, but this quote made a difference. - My most respected CLE teacher he is in fact a really good speaker and surely changed a lot of our lives. Going to miss him as it is his last year. Friends are one of the most important things in life and they are who shape you most of the time which is why we should get the best set of friends. I know it does not sound inspirational here, because it isn't exactly what they said and the other things they said that time before they said these. Edited March 13, 2011 by exoduse22
Cee Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 Friendship is like planting a garden. You throw a lot of seeds out there, give water, and hope they grow. Not every plant will grow tall and strong, but some will. Try to put time into people who give something back. Some friends get caught up their lives and forget about you. It's okay to still like them, but step back and focus on other people. Friendship will change as you change. If you focus on loving yourself and being good to people, hopefully, good friendships will come into your life. However, friendships do end for lots of reasons and try not to take it personally.
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