mustofbeen Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 So my ex broke up with me last Dec, it hurt but oh well, i saw her a month afterwards while picking up my things, and she was flirting with me, but i was just friendly, nothing else. She invited me to her birthday and that was the last i saw her till today. She has been texting me since every few months about nothing, wtf? but watever. While we were dating she told me about her ex that beat her, but they remained friends, i met him few times and i always wanted to bash his face in, but remained mature. So i called me today asking me to help her friend, i tried. Few hours later saw her with him and other friends at a local food joint, and i pretended that i didn't see heror him. Later on i ended up meeting this dudes ex gf and we hit it of. She told me that he hated me way before we met just because of the girl and bunch of other dirt. So why is my ex hanging out with him, and should i date this new girl?
Author mustofbeen Posted March 13, 2011 Author Posted March 13, 2011 I also want to send her a message if i ever see her with her ex i want her to forget i ever existed, to never bother me again, this dude is an abusive pos. Pros and cons?
spackle Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 just ignore her/him. I know the need to vent and let her know how you're feeling.
ReturnToSender Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 I kind of think that sending her a message will just bring you to the top of her mind, not make her forget you exist. Im guessing in this sort of situation, just ignore her...he has nothing to do with you anyway so definitely ignore him. Im not sure about this other girl...thats the ex of your ex gfs ex? That would make for a strange dynamic...kind of has drama written all over it. Id likely avoid that with all my life and disconnect from that whole circle altogether.
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