guitarguy09 Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 they always try to hold you back.. my ex of two years left me for another guy,went no contact and after 2 months started to feel a bit better about the situation but then out of the blue contacts me saying shes sorry and wants to be friends and says i was an important part of her life. honestly, it brought me back a bit. any of you ever experience the same thing?
0hpenelope Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 Two months seems to be the turning point for a lot of situations I read about - including myself. Whether it's a romantic relationship or a close friendship turned bad, I weighed my pros and cons and went from there. My decision's usually not favorable to them. I've healed, moved on and doing quite well. I've made other friends and while I will miss the bond and look fondly on the good times, there are always new friends to be made - and the ones that stuck around are the ones worth investing my time, attention and energy on because they never left. I had to heal without them. Why do they want the happier, more fun Penny when they couldn't stick around during our bad times and work things out? By this time, I'm not bitter or angry. I've really just moved on and don't want them around. May your ex leave you alone to your own happiness without her. If she really cared, she will leave you alone to what you want for yourself.
charly26 Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 check out this video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=reRU3S_Z5MQ
spackle Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 it's like some sixth sense with them. You're on right on the cusp of leaving it all behind then either a text, an email or something from them jumps out and pulls you back in to hell. maybe hell is a bit dramatic but I'm having one of those mornings.
betterdeal Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 Dude, you keep asking this question. What answer are you hoping for? She dumped up and is being drilled by some other guy. She loves it. He's nowhere near as emotionally intelligent as you, but the sex is fantastic. He's really loving it too: she dotes on him and doesn't give him all that emotional stuff. She probably dumps that on her ex, which is fine. He wants her body and he's got it. When she gets pregnant it'll be time to dump her. She'll probably go back to her ex and persuade him to raise the child. That's fine too. He gets to spread his genes, knows his child is being looked after by a decent guy, and find himself someone else to have fun with. Then after the child has been raised to a toddler and is at school at around the age 4-7, she'll not need as much support from a kind, decent guy, and will fancy a bit more rough, carnal banging by a real man. So she'll find another hunk and be boned senseless by this free spirit, this tough guy. It's a sweet set up, you gotta admit. Well for her and him at least. If that's what you want, carry on just the way you are.
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