purplehouse Posted March 12, 2011 Posted March 12, 2011 So i've known this guy since November, went out together for the first time in February and had a great night. Talked on the phone a few times, message on facebook and text every day. He sent flowers to my house 2 days ago...a huge beautiful mixed bunch. Came to my house last night from 8pm until 2am. We talked the whole time and enjoyed a quiet drink. Decided to have a tea/coffee at about 1:30 and then he left at about 2. We sat on the couch next to each other, had great conversation, moved out to the deck for a while then back inside as it was getting cool. No touching or anything, and then when he left he packed up his guitar and looked at me and said thanks for having me, i was kind of lingering on the front porch thinking "this could be the kiss" and nothing!!! He happily toddled off to his car, guitar in hand and i said "no worries i'll talk to you soon" It all happened so fast i walked inside and was like what the???? He sent me this huge bunch of flowers to "let me know how he felt about me" Now i know it's not up to the male to make the first move all the time but there was no real moment for me to even try and i figured i'd at least get a hug as he left.... Any thoughts? He has been very open about his interest in me as a partner so that's why i'm confused
just be you Posted March 12, 2011 Posted March 12, 2011 (edited) Could be he knows all the right things to do, and say, up to a point, but, he may be shy beyond that. I'm like that, that and I've never been aggressive in a relationship. Two reasons, respect for myself, and respect for women. If the two of you communicate easily then it should be easy to talk about. Just ask him. If he's in touch with himself he'll own it. If not, then you've just helped him learn something about himself. In the end you'll both learn more about each other from talking about it than you'll ever learn from not talking about it. Oh, and personally. I'd prefer talking about something like this face to face. one guys opinion Edited March 13, 2011 by just be you
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