clarerb Posted March 14, 2011 Posted March 14, 2011 I understand why you have stayed with him but at the same time it makes me sooo sad for you. yes its good he has been honest but i do wonder how honest he has really been. In my situation my OH was sorry and felt that she was not worth losing me over. he probably told me everything i needed to hear but if he had once said he wanted to continue with the OW or anything along those lines, I would not want him within a mile of me. If you think honestly it can work you both need counselling and I would suggest holding back on the sex so much as he probably thinks doing what he has done has brought all this new wanting for him. persionally im making it hard for my other half and making him work hard to continue being with me. I wish you all the best and truly hope its over and wont happen again. BTW you need couple counselling but you sound like you need 1 on 1 counselling for your own self esteem also.
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