lazereye88 Posted March 12, 2011 Posted March 12, 2011 So This weekend I went to a conference from my university club.So there is this girl in this club,who I have occasionally talked to regarding a situation with a girl and what not, but we are not "close". So this weekend during the conference I found out it was her birthday, and I could tell she missed her fam.So with out bothering it was long distance for me I lent her my phone to call her family.But I knew that she was still feeling kinda home sick.So I went out got her card made everyone sign it, and got her some ice cream (since I could not get cake), and I gather everyone to surprise her in her room.During this time she found out we were doing this, but played it off (not sure if she knew I planned the entire thing).So she had a good tym. After that she told me to come lie beside her in bed and were talking about random stuff which i was to drunk to remember.After she fell a sleep i decided to leave because if i slept in her room people will assume we slept together 2 days later after the conference we all went to a pub where she got drunk,and people were afraid some one would take advantage of her and asked me to stay with her.So we went to the patio where it was snowing and she asked me to teach her how to dance and everything. than I was being playful and threw a snow ball at her and she kinda got mad and almost kicked me in the nuts,but immediately things became kinda fun and I started to teach her how to ballroom dance. Than she put her face on mine and said "for a frat boy I'm being to nice" and "asked me why I was not seducing her". I just laughed it off and did not say anything ( she was to drunk and i did not want to do anything).We went back to dance floor and this random girl came to me and started dancing, but she noticed the other girl and asked if we were together, I said we were just friends but she would not say anything,but than to make it less awkward she said we were friends. Afterwards our other friends came and since she was to drunk we decided to leave.She had no jacket with her and it was snowing I gave her mine and we took the cab where another friend of mine asked me why I was not hitting on lot of girls who seemed very interested, So I said "there is this one girl who I'm seeing and she wants to get serious so till I make a decision on it I will not do anything". and this girl who was drunk was there the entire time. So went back to the hotel got her some pizza and put her to bed and I went to my room. So the next day I got up and broke it of with the other girl who wanted get serious just because she is not the right type for me. Now I might be interested in this girl but not sure if she actually liked me or if it was the alcohol? every time we are together she say I'm to mature (although I'm 19 and she is 23 or 24) and I look like I'm 23. so when we got back from the conference she had to wait for her sister to come pick her up so I offered to wait but she said it was not necessary,so when I was going to leave she looked like she wanted me to stay and asked if I was not going to walk with her, so I did, and I spend some time with, and her sister came and she left.Now I am thinking could this girl like or was it the alcohol. I have not seen or spoken to her after this its been 3 almost a week. I will see her next week again. What do i do? could she like me? Because I personally believe a drunk mans words or actions is a sober mans though or actions.
NoMagicBullet Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 could she like me? Because I personally believe a drunk mans words or actions is a sober mans though or actions. There is definitely some truth to this. Alcohol lowers the inhibitions and social restrictions; what you get when someone is drunk is that part of themselves they keep restrained when they are sober (and for some people, the two aren't very different). However, don't mistake a person's behaviour while intoxicated as their "true" selves -- them sober is as much a part of them as when they are not sober. Sounds like she might like you. You paid quite a bit of attention to her during that conference, so she's probably wondering how much you like her. You won't know for sure unless you ask her out while you're both sober.
Author lazereye88 Posted March 13, 2011 Author Posted March 13, 2011 There is definitely some truth to this. Alcohol lowers the inhibitions and social restrictions; what you get when someone is drunk is that part of themselves they keep restrained when they are sober (and for some people, the two aren't very different). However, don't mistake a person's behaviour while intoxicated as their "true" selves -- them sober is as much a part of them as when they are not sober. Sounds like she might like you. You paid quite a bit of attention to her during that conference, so she's probably wondering how much you like her. You won't know for sure unless you ask her out while you're both sober. Thanks for your advice man. But I have a feeling that might have give her mixed signals. And Ladies and Gentlemen I know this is a long read, but your input would be greatly appreciated. Thank you
Recommended Posts