very_sad Posted March 12, 2011 Posted March 12, 2011 Last weekend I was going to ask my boyfriend for some space but because I didn't want to ruin an event we had already planned I said nothing. I didn't want to talk something so important on the phone, so I've been waiting for this weekend to roll by to speak to him. My dog became really ill yesterday and died this morning. I am no longer sure if I want a little space... I don't want to break up with him, I'm just over the top with a hundred little things and now the death of my dog. I'm not treating my boyfriend as he deserves and I want to back off a little before I hurt him. I dont know if I can take these turn of events anymore. It seems something doesn't want us be separated... And through it all I can't stop crying:(:( Perhaps I'm just venting but if someone can advice me, I'd appreciate it.
Movingthrough Posted March 12, 2011 Posted March 12, 2011 My dog became really ill yesterday and died this morning. I am no longer sure if I want a little space... You are going through a hard time, so the thought of breaking up and not having anyone there is not what you want now. Obviously, before what happened to your dog, you wanted to break up. Just the thought is enough to be a problem. I respect you not wanting to drag him along and hurt him, but technicaly thats what you are doing now. You need to be honeset with yourself and him and tell him how you feel.
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