Breayanna Posted March 12, 2011 Posted March 12, 2011 Just want to thank everyone in this forum, both those in pain and those who are guiding us through our pain, for being here. I am again grieving the loss of a love and frankly, beginning to wonder if I am a magnet for passive aggressives or is that how most of us move in the world? I'd give my eye teeth for ppl who can just communicate directly and honestly. Thanks for your sound advice about NC and taking back my power from the one who threw me away. It helps reinforce my resolve to honor myself when I feel weak, or when I feel the cold emptiness that is my chest right now. I know it sounds pathetic, but the fact that so many are feeling what I am feeling lessens my pain. Thanks.
Trovador Posted March 12, 2011 Posted March 12, 2011 I'd like to add that we dumpees worry too much... it's not healthy (duh!) to put so much heart and soul in common and fallible (and in most cases less bright) individuals whom we call exes... if they are coming back why to worry? And if they are not coming back, why to worry? Life is too precious to let other people handle it for ourselves...
Cassandra92 Posted March 12, 2011 Posted March 12, 2011 I have been really enjoying being on here too. Getting to write out and share your story and feelings is cathartic, and even better when you can get feedback from sympathetic people in similar situations, no matter where in the world they are. Giving advice to other people is helpful too, it definately takes your mind off your own troubles for a little bit. Whenever I feel really low and I have nobody around me, it's nice to know I can come here. I'd say a broken heart is the most common injury in the world.
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