Stilicho Posted March 12, 2011 Posted March 12, 2011 basically, a few months back, my girlfriend of 2 years up and left me, after she suddenly developed a case of g.i.g.s. after a period of N.C, shebegan to force contact, as we go to the same university. slowly, she has been trying to weasel her wau back into my life, with such things as late night calls, texts in the early a/m, when she knows im on my way to work, leaving notes on my car, saying she misses my family, dog, etc. Even tries to make arrangements to hang out, which ive turned down. thing is, she is still seeing the g.i.g.s guy, although she always swears that theyre not serious, and that they havent had sex, etc. basically, i love the girl, but i think im more in love with the memories. besides that, i have for the most part moved on, have dated other girls(havent really enjoyed it, as i think its still too early), and have finally accepted my new spot in life. But, of course the thought of getting back together crosses my mind, especially when around her, as she acts like she did when we were together, so, in effect, im asking if anybody has gotten back together with an ex who developed a case of g.i.g.s? did it work? howd it feel? all responses are appreciated
collegeguy_24 Posted March 12, 2011 Posted March 12, 2011 While I have personally not had an ex come back to me, what concerns me about your post is the fact that she is trying to win you back, but is still dating the other guy. What does that tell you about her? She is basically cheating on him by trying to get with you. I would advise you tell her that, and that you won't take her back if she goes behind his back to try and get back with you. After all, how do you know she won't do the same thing to you?
Author Stilicho Posted March 12, 2011 Author Posted March 12, 2011 i dont know that she wouldnt do the same to me, which is pretty much the biggest issue, besides the betrayal of it all. idk, i just feel so conflicted over it all because pat of me tries to defend her in a way, which is wrong. it doesnt help that all of my family and friends loved her, and no one thought she was capable of leaving like she did.
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