Author purple_cloud Posted March 12, 2011 Author Posted March 12, 2011 Probably the best sex of my life. I wouldn't mind FWB with him (he is 8 years younger) but he doesn't seem interested. I'm keeping the jacket as a momento
Star Gazer Posted March 12, 2011 Posted March 12, 2011 So, was the sex spectacular? Probably not good for him, otherwise he'd maintain contact to keep up with the sex. I wonder if he looked at his watch?
jane100 Posted March 12, 2011 Posted March 12, 2011 Personally I hate the expression ONS "one night stand". Has anybody gone into such sex thinking "I am having a one-night stand" or is that how they justify it afterwards by denying the emotion/feelings/respect/sensuality/need/humantiy/attraction/joy/love/pleasure involved? "A night of love" sounds a little precious perhaps, but "casual sex" worse. We need a new word or we need to stop doing it or we need to stop lying to ourselves.
depplover_1980 Posted March 12, 2011 Posted March 12, 2011 Personally I hate the expression ONS "one night stand". Has anybody gone into such sex thinking "I am having a one-night stand" or is that how they justify it afterwards by denying the emotion/feelings/respect/sensuality/need/humantiy/attraction/joy/love/pleasure involved? "A night of love" sounds a little precious perhaps, but "casual sex" worse. We need a new word or we need to stop doing it or we need to stop lying to ourselves. I call it f*cking!!
carhill Posted March 12, 2011 Posted March 12, 2011 My exW called it 'sport-f*cking', perhaps reflective of our generation.
depplover_1980 Posted March 12, 2011 Posted March 12, 2011 My exW called it 'sport-f*cking', perhaps reflective of our generation. Haha that is such a coincidence Carhill as my pal once asked me why I faff around on dating sites and I replied 'sport'!
bac Posted March 12, 2011 Posted March 12, 2011 It happened randomly. We were hanging out and had a bit too much to drink. I slept over without cuddling or anything. The next morning it was awkward and there was dead silence I may just hang on to the jacket If you loved sex and were passionate during the sex, he would not reject you. You probably presented yourself as a good girl who does not care for meaningless hot sex but who wanted a serious relationship. That was why he has vanished. Men are afraid of women who are into serious stuff. He is so afraid of you that he might prefer to lose his favorite jacket.
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