auntie35 Posted March 11, 2011 Posted March 11, 2011 (edited) I recently met a guy online. We wrote back and forth for a while, and then started have regular, long phone conversations. We really seemed to hit it off. He was very upfront with me from the beginning, about the divorce he is going through and said that he wanted to take it slow. In any case we had long phone conversations daily for about a month before we decided to meet. We live several hours away from each other, so I agreed to travel to his city, because I have friends there that I could stay with. We met for lunch on a Saturday, and just walked around and hung out for about 12 hours. We both had a good time and we decided to meet up again on Sunday before I went home, and met for lunch and hung out, and walked around town for another 5-6 hours. He talked to me on the phone my whole trip home and then for a couple hours after I got home. We both agreed that it went well and that we needed to plan to get together again soon. We continue to talk, but not as often as before we met, and he keeps apologizing and saying feeling really down and depressed about the mess with the divorce, which he didn't say or do before we met. It's not that he wants his wife back, it's more about the debt and dividing the assets, and it has been a little messy. But he says it should be done soon. Why is he all of a sudden so down about it right after he met me and we had what I thought was a great time? Is it just a coincidence? He says he is exhausted from juggling a million things, closing doors on old relationships, opening doors on new relationships, a new job, deaths in the family and friends, divorce, etc.. All of which I understand, but am I just adding to his stress? Would he continue to contact me if he wasn't still interested? Can I ask him what he is thinking about us? Or do I just wait and see what happens? Edited March 11, 2011 by auntie35 shortened
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