Can'tstandit Posted March 11, 2011 Posted March 11, 2011 I've been with my girlfriend for 5 months and in that time we've had alot of arguements. I don't mean to sound like i'm the sort of person who can't take the blame for anything but all the arguements we've had so far have been because of things she's done. E.g she snaps out at me, she says she hates me if i do the slightest thing wrong, i caught her sending dodgey texts to another guy at the beginning of our relationship, she gets jelous if i ever talk to other girls (which is anoying when the majority of students at my 6th form are girls). Recently she had been snapping out at me so much and was getting so jelous that the other day we had our biggest arguement yet. I was so close to breaking up with her after that arguement because it made me realise and look back in detail about all the bad things she's done to me. Since our third month being together she's reminded me of how much she loves me on a regular basis; she knows how close i was the other day to breaking up with her so she's been getting really emotional to me saying she can't imagine life without me and that she's sorry for everything she's done, that she's in love with me and wants reasurance that i'm not going to break up with her soon. I really struggle to answer her and end up just kissing her instead (i know it's not fair to give her an answer but i'm really not sure myself). I don't think i feel about her the same way since looking back on all of the things she's done in the past and i never get the urge to say i love you like i used to. I've not said i love her since the arguement to be honest. Is it worth staying with her? shall i see if i start feeling for her again? Thanks for reading and if you have any advice or opinions please share them
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