aerogurl87 Posted March 11, 2011 Posted March 11, 2011 I am happy I moved. Things are going great for my boyfriend and I, although I'm still settling in. I get to go to sleep beside him every night, wake up next to him every morning, and finally I feel like I'm in an actual relationship. :bunny: I mean not saying that before when we were in a LDR I didn't feel like it was a relationship, but there's no more loneliness. I can cuddle with him on the couch every evening and watch tv, we can go to the movies, hang out, etc. and it's every day. I'm really happy I moved to be with him, and so far it seems like it was the right decision. Tonight we're having our first official date night and I'm excited for that. So that's my little update for now. I have to start work on Monday morning so I may not be on here as much. And my boyfriend and I are revelling in part 2 of our honeymoon phase. And that's another thing I should mention. The passion I thought was missing is getting stronger. I'm falling in love with him all over again every single day. He's also been super helpful and patient with me since I moved here. The other day we went to go pick up his other car which he gave to me, and then he took me for driving lessons in the snow. And since I was born in the Southern part of the US, driving in snow is a foreign concept to me, haha. So we spent all afternoon with him teaching me how to drive in this weather safely. Then we spent that morning running around and doing some much needed errands that needed to be done as soon as possible so I could get things in order. He's been an awesome boyfriend and I'm really happy that I did decide to come here in the end. I hope everyone else on here can have a chance at ending their distance as well. Because when you are able to go from being in a LDR to just a relationship and you can see all your hard work and planning being worth it, it's a wonderful feeling.
folieadeux Posted March 11, 2011 Posted March 11, 2011 Now these are the types of updates I LOVE hearing!!! So glad everything's going well for you guys. You are officially an LDR graduate. You should be proud and I hope to be in your shoes one day as well. I wish you both continued success and oh yeah...you need to change your location on here!
HeavenOrHell Posted March 11, 2011 Posted March 11, 2011 SO glad and happy to hear it Really happy for you
Author aerogurl87 Posted March 12, 2011 Author Posted March 12, 2011 Thanks folie and HoH, I'm really happy I can give this type of update especially considering how rough the past few months had been on both him and myself. But now I'm here and him and I are planning to go see Battle: Los Angeles after he gets home from work. I'm still in that surreal/shock mode where I wake up and think "crap I have to leave him again" and then it hits me that no I don't have to leave him. So I guess it still hasn't completely sunk in for me, or him as he's told me, lol. But it is nice having him come home to me every night and just being a couple without having to worry about planning for upcoming visits. Now we just need to get everything ready for me to get my permanent residency in the next year. Now these are the types of updates I LOVE hearing!!! So glad everything's going well for you guys. You are officially an LDR graduate. You should be proud and I hope to be in your shoes one day as well. I wish you both continued success and oh yeah...you need to change your location on here! Yeah I guess I should change my location now, lol.
Woggle Posted March 12, 2011 Posted March 12, 2011 I am happy for you but honestly I would work on yourself a bit because you do seem to go back and forth with him. Just being honest so don't take it as an insult.
Author aerogurl87 Posted March 12, 2011 Author Posted March 12, 2011 I am happy for you but honestly I would work on yourself a bit because you do seem to go back and forth with him. Just being honest so don't take it as an insult. No it's fine, Woggle. We've both talked about how I went back and forth on him for a bit and was very inconsistent. I'm still working through those issues and to be honest it's alot easier doing it in person with him, than on the phone. I open up easier to him in person and so it's easier for me to talk about how I felt and feel, and why. We were actually discussing it last night and he said that I seem to be more vulnerable to him in person than on the phone. And I agree with him, I let him in easier when he's here with me and looking me in the eye and holding me while I talk to him. Maybe it's a safety thing, as I feel safe when he's with me and like I can talk about anything to him because I'm no longer afraid to be vulnerable. But no I take no offence to that.
Els Posted March 12, 2011 Posted March 12, 2011 I am so glad to hear that. And yes, nothing like moving together after a long absence to rekindle passion! :bunny: Keep us updated, AG!
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