fortyninethousand322 Posted March 11, 2011 Posted March 11, 2011 I’ve done some thinking recently, and I’ve realized that one of my biggest problems is that I’ve gotten used to my life. I’ve gotten comfortable in my routines. Don’t get me wrong, I have great friends and I enjoy spending time with them and I enjoy how I spend my free time. It’s not that I’m not having fun and enjoying my life, it’s that it’s gotten too routine. As a result, I rarely, if ever meet anyone new (male or female). I do the same old stuff with the same old people. Obviously, the biggest goal for me is to find a girl I like and start dating. But, in general there’s always room for more friends too. Now, the only issue is to figure out what I should cut back on, and what I should replace it with. This is a bigger deal than it sounds because I immensely enjoy everything I do and my interests are so varied that new hobbies could include anything from a book club to a flag football league. But I really do need to do this, if I continue down this path I will likely never meet anyone (I’m only 23, but it’s likely that this will be easier to fix now than when I’m 33). Does anyone else feel this way? Like they need to change for the sake of change?
EasyHeart Posted March 11, 2011 Posted March 11, 2011 What you describe isn't "change for the sake of change", it's "change for the sake of meeting women". If you want to meet more women and aren't meeting them now, by all means change. It doesn't mean you have to change your life drastically. Maybe think about joining a volleyball league instead of a football league, or find a book club with lots of single women in it.
Author fortyninethousand322 Posted March 11, 2011 Author Posted March 11, 2011 What you describe isn't "change for the sake of change", it's "change for the sake of meeting women". If you want to meet more women and aren't meeting them now, by all means change. It doesn't mean you have to change your life drastically. Maybe think about joining a volleyball league instead of a football league, or find a book club with lots of single women in it. Well, but it's not just about meeting women. As I said I rarely meet anyone new, male or female. And I'm not talking about changing my life drastically, I mean it more as in change things up a little bit. Instead of having the same exact routine week in and week out. So it is change for the sake of change but with meeting women as a by-product of that change.
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