Enlighten_ME Posted March 11, 2011 Posted March 11, 2011 If you are constantly questioning someones feelings for you, because of their actions.. Regardless of what they say. Is this a red flag? General selfish behavior?
MommyofThree Posted March 11, 2011 Posted March 11, 2011 A "red flag" is an alert that something is not right within a relationship. Red flags are raised when the other person has done something to betray your trust, such as cheat or lie. Or, they do something deceiving or against your liking. These are seen as "things that are not cool within your standard expectations of your relationship". Red flags and Insecurity are two different things. In this case, if you're relating this question to your previous thread, you are insecure. Insecurity is not a general selfish behavior, in my opinion. Insecurity in this case has been induced by a breech of trust. This is a "red flag" against HER. Now, if you were insecure although she has never given you a reason to be, THEN your insecurity would be general selfish behavior. And that would be a "red flag" agains YOU. Don't expect your "questioning her feelings towards you, regardless of what she says" to go away in a day or two. This feeling will start to diminish once your trust for her has began to strengthen. Hope I made sense.
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