Touhouh Posted March 11, 2011 Posted March 11, 2011 Hey I see a lot of these ebooks that promise amazing ways to get to help you get your ex back and I was wondering if anyone had a reliable torrent for any of them? One in particular that caught my mind was Pull your ex back by Ryan something or other..one sec Hall. Ryan Hall. Now I know it's my first post but I'm not posting a link..I really wish I could see this book I can't find it anywhere. I wish they sold a paperback version. Anyone have any reliable sources? I don't know something about the sites though says something would happen with my credit information. Any help out there? Even pirate bay didnt seem to have this book. :/
Author Touhouh Posted March 11, 2011 Author Posted March 11, 2011 Seriously I'm not a bot..I just can't use a card okay? I don't want to talk about what's happening and I feel like a book would be the best thing.
cboy90 Posted March 11, 2011 Posted March 11, 2011 It's all a bunch of crap. When me and my ex first broke up I downloaded every single one of them. They all roam around one main point, and that is.........No Contact! I think I got my ebooks from isohunt.com or demonoid.com. I can't even remember the name of the site.
valpre Posted March 11, 2011 Posted March 11, 2011 I don't believe that any of these books are useful. You already have all the answers you need, just look inwards, face the truth.. even if it's painful.. and always do what you feel is best for your you. No one else can give you some "magic formula" to manipulate/change someone else's feelings/mind.
MasonM618 Posted March 11, 2011 Posted March 11, 2011 If you're working on getting someone back the process definetly goes deeper than just "ignoring" someone. Yes, situations vary from relationship to relationship and there will be instances people just arent going to get back what they had for different reasons, there won't be a quick fix that will make those situations better.If the relationship is repairable there are methods that you can use to "begin" again. Not doing some of these things correctly can screw everything up. For example, yes talking is good after a cool down period but not in too much depth, keep it light and friendly. Wanting to talk to them all the time and not letting a little healing happen from the issue will just cause a deeper rift. Why? Well here are two reasons: 1. By constantly contacting them makes you look to desperate and a little crazy and thats will just scare people away. (Usually no matter how much they may love you!) 2. If you're constantly wanting to talk about the issue you look like your trying to force the issue. This causes people to get unconfortable and they will pull away from you too if they're aren't fully ready to deal with it. Bottom line you look desperate and needy. I don't know about you or anyone else but desperate and/or needy is not what I look for in a partner nor find attractive. I will go the other way and so won't most people. Just a few words of advice that I hope can help! Wishing you luck in love and life Mason
MasonM618 Posted March 12, 2011 Posted March 12, 2011 I am curious too as to what kinds of questions people are seeking answers to when they purchase these "make up" books, if these books arent helping them out?
Jdw_Icequeen Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 Well to answer your question mason obviously we are all looking for the magic answer right? LOL.. There isn't one.. Your right all relationships are very diffrent. I obsessed over these stupid ebooks for the first I would say month in a half. I didn't by any of them just researched them. Like cboy said "NO CONTACT" however they just found a way to write a whole book about it to make money. Yes alot of us are desperate at one point in time during the break up. These people aren't stupid I bet they have made some good money on our desperate obsessive attempts to win our exs back. I think some of them tell you how to initiate contact after its been long enough who knows.. I hate to sound bitter but even though second chances are not impossible by any means. I haven't seen many that last. Then your just back to square one..
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