Hcn929 Posted March 11, 2011 Posted March 11, 2011 I have been with this girl for about a month and a half now, we hang out together on weekends and are in constant contact with each other. *We were both definitely into each other, but I am unsure how she feels as of now. She's been very busy with school so I understand that, but it kind of feels like she blew me off this week and feels like she's blowing me off this weekend. *We won't be able to see eachother for another 2 with spring break coming up and both of us going back home.* My question is, would I screw things up if I asked her if things between us have changed? * I honestly have fallen for her but I don't know how she feels and am afraid of being hurt but at the same time need to know.* Thanks
PratyekaYana Posted March 11, 2011 Posted March 11, 2011 I've always favored the most direct of strategies when it comes to problem solving in relation to the opposite sex, so my suggestion would be to bluntly and unapologetically ask her where both of you stand with respect to this relationship. Why remain in limbo, especially considering that you guys are approaching a somewhat lengthy period of separation, when the opportunity for clarity is so near?
Author Hcn929 Posted March 11, 2011 Author Posted March 11, 2011 Thank you, and thats exactly what I am seeking, clarity. I was just unsure if being blunt, while I have no problem doing so, is the right way to go about it. I don't want to hurt myself even more by reassuring myself that everything is alright but then find out later that it really things were not.
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