Can men get aroused easily when making out with women they are not attracted to?

[purple_cloud]

Say you are making out with a guy and very soon into it he gets hard.

 

Does this mean that he has at least some physical attraction towards the woman?

[quietGuy13]

Yeah there is a common attraction which is she's human and she's Female.

 

in fact, if you put a guy in a room full of unattractive women that were dressed sexy and were seductive, he would get aroused even if he wasn't attracted to them that much. it's kinda weird that it works that way but

female is female no matter what

[carhill]

It means he's a functional heterosexual male, presuming you're a woman. Most men will respond functionally to sexual stimulation from a female, whether he likes her or not; whether he finds her 'hot' or not. If you're not a female Quasimodo, you're in.

[daphne]

If you're not a female Quasimodo, you're in.

 

:lmao:

 

That'll make a girl feel special.

[Mrlonelyone]

Actually I would go one further.

 

Every 100% gay man I know over the age of 35 has had at least one sexual experience with a woman. Perhaps not full intercourse but experience. So even they can get hard with a woman who's not a female quasimodo. (A triple bagger.)

 

It's purely a reflex action due to certain stimuli.

 

However I would say if the mans kissing you he probably is attracted. If he's kissing you then your not a triple bagger.

[purple_cloud]

That's exactly what I thought.

[Mrlonelyone]

Why do you ask?

 

By the by did you cancel on that day long date?

[TouchedByViolet]

I don't get excited about making out with a girl I am not into. I have never actually done it but the thought makes me uncomfortable and uneasy. I think whoever I am kissing could definitely tell my passion/lust is not there. Maybe that is just me.

[Eddie Edirol]

That's exactly what I thought.

 

Nope, a hard on during making out does not guarantee he will be attracted to you when the sex is over. it just means he is horny at that second.

[Titania22]

Nope, a hard on during making out does not guarantee he will be attracted to you when the sex is over. it just means he is horny at that second.

 

What about no hard on while making out?

[Duckduckgoose]

What about no hard on while making out?

 

Either it means he's got his hormones under control or you need to grind him a bit

[Titania22]

Either it means he's got his hormones under control or you need to grind him a bit

 

Thanks, from Carhill's earlier statement, I thought I might be turning into a female quasimodo.

[DevilBoi]

Actually I would go one further.

 

Every 100% gay man I know over the age of 35 has had at least one sexual experience with a woman. Perhaps not full intercourse but experience. So even they can get hard with a woman who's not a female quasimodo. (A triple bagger.)

 

It's purely a reflex action due to certain stimuli.

 

However I would say if the mans kissing you he probably is attracted. If he's kissing you then your not a triple bagger.

 

I'm a 25 year old gay male and I did have sex with women before, even though I wasn't attracted to them. My parter was in a relationship and engaged to a woman for 5 years before he came out. So yes, you can get aroused even if you're not attracted to the person.

[Mme. Chaucer]

The answer is a resounding YES, especially if it is very dark.

[jane100]

Great question, Purple Cloud.

 

Recently a man i was interested in said he'd been sort of involved with someone sexually etc. and then he said he didn't really want to get further involved. He tailed off with "I wasn't even that attracted to her".

 

Well, you could have knocked me down with a feather at the final sentence. So, he got involved sexually with someone he wasn't even attracted to particularly. Even more interestingly, he seemed very aware of what was going on.

 

I appreciated his honesty I guess but I think I was a little shocked.

I am amazed that at my age I am realizing so many things. The only thing I feel is that it is actually a bit sad its so late maybe.

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

I don't know. Are you offering?

 

But seriously, I don't know, as I'm a virgin who has never "made out with a girl."

[depplover_1980]

Hey most guys can get hard just watching the news, never mind being pressed against. Sexual impulse is no biggie.

[Woman In Blue]

LOL...I agree. Most guys get hard when the wind blows.