SeekPeace Posted March 11, 2011 Share Posted March 11, 2011 (edited) Hi All, I have been in a long distance relationship for past 4 years. She is a very sweet girl. I love her a lot. There has been issues with my nature. For me, I remain stable, have never engaged in any relationship after meeting her and have always felt very secure with her despite it being a LDR. However, I have not shown tangible acts of expressing my stability for her. I have always maintained I am for her. I have visited her in States (am in Asia) when she met with accident and have taken care of her. We have engaged in make out sessions over phone and cam. But still she doesnt seem secure. Recently she visited her parents. Typically I dont call very frequently when she is at her parents place. But it seems it has caused a storm in the teacup. It seems that was my biggest mistake of life and her parents have been accusing me for that. They claim that I have not supported her professional development. She has been doing PhD and is on verge of completing it. Also, another complain has been that I have not visited her in States. To give a bit of background, its sort of arranged marriage and typically within societal norms, its "not looked good" to visit often before marriage. So, I dont know what could have been done. But me not visiting her in US is not that I didnt love her but just to be accomodative of two family views. I really love the girl. I have no intention of not looking after her parents. I may not have been very emotive (its just not in my nature) but as a person, I know I will take care of her and her family. I just dont know what I can do? I just want things to be normal. Can you please suggest some advices? Edited March 11, 2011 by SeekPeace Link to post Share on other sites
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