fallapart1016 Posted March 11, 2011 Posted March 11, 2011 I dated a girl for 3 years. As any story goes, it was perfect on both ends. We were meant for each other, until she broke it off. I still am not sure of the reasons exactly, but that is besides the point. It has been a year, and I tried many things to win her back and I recieved communication back. We have meet up and talked to once in awhile. Now though it seems as if me doing NC, isn't making her miss me. So I am going for a new approach. Even in our relationship I was romantic and did romantic things. What I want to do is prove to her that no matter what I will always be there. She isn't a girl that will take advantage of that by the way. My idea, since we don't text often anymore or call, is to first set up a website with a comment and a picture. That picture will have a hint as to where to go to find that actual spot in the picture. Within there is a key for a P.O. Box. with a letter. From then on, since I use to send everything to her parents' place, I think she didn't want that, I will send letters to her. The only way she will know if there is a new one is to go on the website again and see if there is a new picture, that I take by the way. Sometimes I won't use the P.O. Box, but put it somewhere and take a picture as a trick/hunt. So my goal, which I doubt will happen is she will return to me. Is this a dumb idea or a good idea.
GaelicSoul Posted March 11, 2011 Posted March 11, 2011 Ok, firstly Dumb idea. Im not even going to comment on it. Tell me the facts of the relationship. How did the breakup happen? and as many details as you can mention.
Layzie89 Posted March 11, 2011 Posted March 11, 2011 Ok, firstly Dumb idea. Im not even going to comment on it. What he said.
Author fallapart1016 Posted March 11, 2011 Author Posted March 11, 2011 Ok, firstly Dumb idea. Im not even going to comment on it. Tell me the facts of the relationship. How did the breakup happen? and as many details as you can mention. Yeah I figured that, it was a week or two after the 3 year anniversary. To her, she was going to start her Master's and didn't really have time. She was afraid it wouldn't work out with so many other things going on. I don't know exactly if that is the full reason, because like I said when I asked her what the whole reason is, she didn't like to talk about it because she thinks it is a bad idea that she did break it off. Other than that, she lived in MA, me in PA. We went to college together, and it was amazing, and it worked fine. We never had problems, we were great together.
GaelicSoul Posted March 11, 2011 Posted March 11, 2011 Well something triggered in her to break up with you. Were you too clingy at the time, spent alot of time together, did things get into a routine and became predictable? Did you ever feel she was hiding things from you? What age were you both?
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