thatdog Posted March 28, 2011 Posted March 28, 2011 I think the biggest problem isn't really that you WANT to know everything, but that you can't stop thinking about it and need to talk through it. The problem then is that you have to ask some questions and the WS has to either answer honestly or lie. If they lie about something that is being discussed so frequently it's going to be very difficult not to be caught out in that lie eventually which will then just signal a further betrayal of trust and add yet ANOTHER insult to the injury this has caused. I'm going through this at the moment and I still don't know whether or not she even slept with this guy. I needed to know that much to consider in my decision of whether I could forgive her and I really believe that if she had slept with him there was still a chance I could have go past it. But now after several days of half truths and evasive answers about other things I don't feel I can confidently trust her denial, and I know for sure if i find out later that she actually did bang him then there is no hope for our future together.
FryFish Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 I wanted to know everything.... And the bitch's trickle truth made it worse and worse for me... The worst part, and also the part that made me want to know everything, was hearing of the things she gave up so easily and readily to others that I had to work hard for... It really pissed me off... Its like I put in the time and did all the leg work for the payoff and some other dude gets it for the price of a cheap bottle of booze...
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