quietGuy13 Posted March 10, 2011 Posted March 10, 2011 What does it mean? That she gave you a fake number? Cause that wouldve been quite mean. I dont' know what else it could mean. BUt she's a foreigner but her number she gave me had my city's area code so I"m sure it was a true number. mmmm.... She also gave me an email and it's from a email site from china. I sent her a message and she hasn't replied for 2 days. that would suck if she just gave me fake number and fake email. hehehe
fortyninethousand322 Posted March 10, 2011 Posted March 10, 2011 What does it mean? That she gave you a fake number? Cause that wouldve been quite mean. I dont' know what else it could mean. BUt she's a foreigner but her number she gave me had my city's area code so I"m sure it was a true number. mmmm.... She also gave me an email and it's from a email site from china. I sent her a message and she hasn't replied for 2 days. that would suck if she just gave me fake number and fake email. hehehe Yeah I would just walk (no, run) away. I won't get into the pros and cons and giving out fake numbers, but seriously it's definitely not worth it.
Fondue Posted March 10, 2011 Posted March 10, 2011 That really sucks, man. I think you got some fake contact information . With that said, I think it's incredibly stupid and cowardly of women (and I'm sure men do this too) to give out fake information. If you're not interested, then say so. Giving out fake numbers is just a stupid practice. There is absolutely no reason for it.
Mrlonelyone Posted March 10, 2011 Posted March 10, 2011 It's known as passive aggression. By being so indirect the woman thinks she's being "nice" or "not hurting you". When really when someone does that they are doing something far worse than an up front and mature rejection. Don't worry ... whoever "wins" such a woman is in for a life where any conflict will be met with just such passive aggression. Imagine a GF who handled conflict inside the relationship that way?
tincanman99 Posted March 10, 2011 Posted March 10, 2011 Forget about it and move on. There is not much you can really do about it. It has happened to me many times. It does indeed suck but thats how it is. I finally got to the point where I just dont ask for the digits anymore.
Titania22 Posted March 10, 2011 Posted March 10, 2011 It's known as passive aggression. By being so indirect the woman thinks she's being "nice" or "not hurting you". I don't think girls do that because she thinks she's being nice, or not hurting you. I think girls do it, when guys come on so strong and are a bit scary. Many people both men and women hate confrontation, and if someone is being really full on, it can feel like the easiest way to make them go away. I have done it in the past, I don't do it now, but I still hate confrontation. The worst is when guys won't take no for an answer.
Mrlonelyone Posted March 10, 2011 Posted March 10, 2011 I finally got to the point where I just dont ask for the digits anymore. Do you just ask for a date right then and there?
Author quietGuy13 Posted March 10, 2011 Author Posted March 10, 2011 maybe it's not really a fake number. but the phone company's fault. I was reading in the web about the recorded message "NOT A WORKING NUMBER" that many people get from Sprint or other companies and many people are upset about it. now about the email.. that may be that my email doesn't reach cause the email servers from China may not accept incoming mail from yahoo. like another time, i had problems sending to JAPAN yahoo mail and i read that some companies like COX internet has trouble withsending and receiving to some mail servers
tincanman99 Posted March 10, 2011 Posted March 10, 2011 Do you just ask for a date right then and there? I dont do anything. Thats the problem.
paleblue Posted March 10, 2011 Posted March 10, 2011 lol... im sorry to get a chuckle out of that, but i did. it just sounds funny. a fake email and a fake phone number. who does that????? good grief. forget about her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lmao.
Feelin Frisky Posted March 10, 2011 Posted March 10, 2011 It's known as passive aggression. By being so indirect the woman thinks she's being "nice" or "not hurting you". When really when someone does that they are doing something far worse than an up front and mature rejection. Don't worry ... whoever "wins" such a woman is in for a life where any conflict will be met with just such passive aggression. Imagine a GF who handled conflict inside the relationship that way? Not to pick a battle or anythnig but that's not passive aggression. Passive aggression is a matter of some deliberation to be cruel and appear totally innocent. Giving fake info is just a typical ruse to blow someone off without having to face blowing them off. I don't blame a girl for giving fake information if she's not interested. Why should she have to be on the spot to say something that will make her just as uncomfortable as the guy will feel in getting the news? It is nicer of her to say, no, you can't have my number? It's sad sut it happens a million times a day throughout the world I'd wager.
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