em84 Posted March 9, 2011 Posted March 9, 2011 i'm not an over reacting crazy girl (i hope!!) but just wanted some opinions. i've been talking to this guy online for a while and he wanted to meet. he seemed very nice so i agreed but the other night i jokingly asked if he was talking to other girls from the net and he said no, he didnt want anyone else. i told him i hadn't been talking to other men either as it was true. i was feeling unsure still so i just looked on the dating site where we met and it says he was on there yesterday the thing is i don't care if there are other girls, it's not like we're 'dating' but i don't want to be lied to.....again!! is this something i should forget about, confront him with or just not bother meeting him at all?
SmileFace Posted March 9, 2011 Posted March 9, 2011 How dare he? -_- Anyway to be serious he may meant he is not talking to any other girls, that doesn't mean he isn't looking. The point is you guys are not dating, so I see no problem here. When I am talking to one guy online I usually sign on even if I am not talking to anyone else. For all you know he could have signed on to look at your profile. Online dating is suppose to be a good experience - please stop over thinking it.
Author em84 Posted March 9, 2011 Author Posted March 9, 2011 How dare he? -_- Anyway to be serious he may meant he is not talking to any other girls, that doesn't mean he isn't looking. The point is you guys are not dating, so I see no problem here. When I am talking to one guy online I usually sign on even if I am not talking to anyone else. For all you know he could have signed on to look at your profile. Online dating is suppose to be a good experience - please stop over thinking it. thanks. i shouldve said he is talking to someone else. i no cause shes the friend i signed up with, d'oh shouldve put that in!!
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 10, 2011 Posted March 10, 2011 thanks. i shouldve said he is talking to someone else. i no cause shes the friend i signed up with, d'oh shouldve put that in!! Really? That sounds like a pretty important bit of your story to "forget" to include. First, it was a dumb question to ask - ESPECIALLY since you knew he was indeed talking to other girls. Why shouldn't he be, anyway? So, you just asked because you wanted to set up a trap. He fell right into it. You caught him; he lied. Obviously, you won't be speaking to him or emailing him anymore, right? Otherwise, why would you set that up?
heartshaped Posted March 10, 2011 Posted March 10, 2011 the other night i jokingly asked if he was talking to other girls from the net and he said no, he didnt want anyone else. First of all, recognize a line when you see it; that was a line. He hasn't even met you yet how can he know if he wants someone else or not? Secondly, don't bait and trap men if you expect them to be honest with you especially when you aren't even dating said men yet. What did you expect him to say? Yeah, I'm talking to Susan and Mary and Jane and Brittney? The guy likes you, go on the date with him, and at which time the two of you decide to be in a relationship then worry about whether or not he's talking with other women.
oaks Posted March 10, 2011 Posted March 10, 2011 What did you expect him to say? Yeah, I'm talking to Susan and Mary and Jane and Brittney? Someone asked me a similar question recently. We found each other online and got as far as 1 phone call and hadn't set up a date yet, then she texted to ask how many other girls I was talking with. Not whether I was seeing or dating anyone, just how many I was talking with. So I told her the number, which was more than just her. She wasn't impressed. I think I dodged something there (and I'm sure she thought the same).
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