someguy2011 Posted March 8, 2011 Posted March 8, 2011 With her guy freinds my girl freind has had this sort of touches: The guy freinds might have put hand over her shoulder, or lay their head on her lap or held her hand etc. She has regularly gone on thier bike and even gone to their room may be alone a few times. She says this was all always innocent and that she has the true relationship only with me.(we have indulged so far in kissing and hugging and petting and not yet slept together) Now she has come in contact with a beautiful woman at a massage parlour. That woman has done waxing of my girl's legs etc. My girl says that the woman has commented that she has very good back / butt, and once she asked my girl what she does about hairs in bikini area(meaning whether she removes hair there). My girl has suspicion that the woman is lesbian. The woman tries to hug my girl bit tightly every time but my girl manages to somehow avoid those tight hugs and gives her only light hugs. Now my girl has become interested in full body massage. I have even bought fantasy lingeire for her for this reason. My girl says that her bra will be removed by the woman during body massage and that after multiple rounds of treatment to the body she will be bathed by the woman. I got exited on hearing this. I asked her whether she will be made to remove all the clothes ie even the panty during the bath whether she will have to be completely naked before the woman. My girl said yes and got just a bit exited about hearing the word "naked" it seems, and she said she was naked in her life until now before her mother and grand mother only. Then suddenly my girl asked me, "what if the woman invites her when she is naked?" Meaning, what if the woman invites her for sex. I was stunned by this question of her, for, that question could even come to her mind. Then I said to her "Go ahead in such a case and have it with that woman". But my girl said then it would make her feel like vomiting in disgust and that she does not like that. But my girl is sure that she will have to get completely naked in front of that woman during massage. But after i began to continuously talk in excitement about the effects of such a thing happening between her and the woman for example I said it could make both of us to sex experiment with that woman, my girl began to say she will not go for massage. But the girl is definitely interested in the massage. She has not had sex till now(only recently our relationship got so good that we bagan to kiss). Which also means she is not yet massaged on her private parts etc, which the woman may do now. So what to do with this girl? Whether she will get involved with this woman or is it just my suspicion? And how do I handle this girl? Should i leave her if she enters in to physical relationship with this woman? Or just keep loving her in any case? Would it be right by me to prevent her from having pleasure with that woman?
ShatteredReality Posted March 8, 2011 Posted March 8, 2011 So, allow me to try to understand - your girl says she thinks this woman is a lesbian and worries she will hit on her during a full body massage...you say that if this woman hits on your girl "go for it". And now you're worried that she will and you are asking if you should be upset if she does? You don't tell a woman to go for it and then punish her if she does. It sounds like your girlfriend is a virgin? She also said she wasn't interested in the other woman? So you're making a huge deal out of nothing. Sounds like you like the thought of her with another woman - you think that's hot - but the reality worries you...you need to make a choice, either you are ok with it or you're not. And most of all - you need to respect her choice. If she doesn't want to mess around with this woman and is upset if the woman tries anything you need to support her instead of talking about all the reasons why it turns you on.
Author someguy2011 Posted March 8, 2011 Author Posted March 8, 2011 Yeah she is still a virgin. Well my concern has been that, even if I say that I dont like her getting massaged by the lesbian woman she may go to her as she likes the idea of getting nude before another woman. I definitely dont have control over this desire of hers. Also whether she will actually form a relationship with that woman, since that woman is an expert in massage and must be knowing how to build lesbian bonds from her experience of massaging thousands of women over the years. So whether my girl friend will later have more interest in that woman and will she be able to sustain our relationship is my concern. It she does not goto that woman for massage, I will be relieved. Because, the things will definitely go beyond limits between my girl and woman whenever the massage may happen. I always used to think that massages are always professional. But it is my girl freind who brought this issue of "lesbian tendency" in the beauty parlour woman and the issue of nudity of both of them during massage. Hence I began to get these concerns. Imaginig two women having sex is always hot, but if that happens in reality it can give rise to complications difficult to handle. Hence I would prefer my girl not to get involved with the lesbian woman.
ShatteredReality Posted March 9, 2011 Posted March 9, 2011 You need to be honest with your gf then, tell her you're not comfortable with her ACTUALLY having lesbian sex with this woman. Also, is this woman not a professional? Unless sex is something extra they add as a service, she can get fired for coming on to a client. Chances are, you're reading too much into this...if she's not a professional then perhaps you have cause for concern, in which case you can buy your g/f a spa package with a full body massage included as a gift elsewhere so she can have the experience without the "temptation". But it didn't sound like your g/f was into the idea of lesbian sex. Maybe she's just more nervous about being naked in front of someone else?
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