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Just Call? Or text first?


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I was recently asked, by friend, if I would be interested in meeting someone she knew. Of course I said I would. Well couple days later, she gives me the telephone number of the girl. She asked the girl first if she could give me her number.

 

So I have her number, but have never talked to her before and have never seen her before. Which would be better, just call her? or a short text message to start with?

 

If you think I should send a short text first? What should it say?

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"I'm in the hedge outside your window"

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Call first you want to start this thing out positive.....

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Understandably your first instinct would be to text, and I don't blame you, as it's much easier on the nerves.

 

However, you should really call. You don't have to talk for hours. If you call and leave a VM and she texts you back, then you have a different set of cards to play with.

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Definitely call first. It's more personal.

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I vote call. Either way, all you have to do is set up a time and place to meet.

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"I'm in the hedge outside your window"

 

 

I love these AWOL comments on LS :D.

 

But yeah, I agree, text too cold. Call first. If no answer, no problem, just leave a short message saying you'll try later or ask her to ring you back when she has some time.

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