Sugarkane Posted March 8, 2011 Posted March 8, 2011 I've been seeing a friend of a coworker during the summer. I knew already that he had to go back interstate by the end of the summer. We both had bad breakups last year. I had finally met someone else that had been through the same thing. He went back home to study. And now keeps asking me to move with him. I'm not sure what to do though. I've never moved before, let alone interstate. He is a 1 1/2 hour flight away. I don't feel that ready too and he keeps nagging me too. I don't know if I'm just rebounding or what. I don't feel that we have chemistry between us.Thats the problem. But he isn't a player like the others guys I've dated before. I also don't know if he just wants me there coz he needs someone to help pay the rent. So confused. My last breakup left me devasted. It hasn't made me exactly want to jump into another relationship again.
Author Sugarkane Posted March 13, 2011 Author Posted March 13, 2011 Anybody? Absolutely no one has any advice?
allina Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 I think moving to be with someone you're in love with makes absolute sense. However you said that you don't feel chemistry with him but that you're seeing him. If you're not in to him then what's the point of dating him? I would never move out of state to live with a guy I've been seeing for a couple months but wasn't really in to.
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