Author tincanman99 Posted March 8, 2011 Author Posted March 8, 2011 No, you know nothing about her and are rejecting her strictly due to her socio-economic level. Not this this bothers me. Everyone is entitled to their preferences. But you are a snob and if you're ever rejected for your socio-economic level, you can't say "boo" to it. And that's a fact! Now if you hadn't made up your mind with preconceived notions and perceptions, my advice to you would have been different. It would have included both potential upsides and downsides. I am not so concerned if someone rejects me for socio-economic level. It is what it is. Maybe so but I have one question for you? Are you affluent like the person I mentioned? Because thats what I am sensing.
threebyfate Posted March 8, 2011 Posted March 8, 2011 I am not so concerned if someone rejects me for socio-economic level. It is what it is. Maybe so but I have one question for you? Are you affluent like the person I mentioned? Because thats what I am sensing.What I am or not isn't significant. But I will admit that this thread is funny to me!
Girlygirl1977 Posted March 8, 2011 Posted March 8, 2011 You seem VERY interested in her because you have posted numerous threads about her. The previous excuse was that she had a bf. The one before that was perhaps she is too young. So - not sure this is even about the money now. I think she makes you feel insecure overall (for the money and the earlier reasons) and that's a tall hill to climb! As much as you keep coming up with excuses though, you can't seem to keep away. Chew some of that over I think. . .
D-Lish Posted March 8, 2011 Posted March 8, 2011 I am not so concerned if someone rejects me for socio-economic level. It is what it is. Maybe so but I have one question for you? Are you affluent like the person I mentioned? Because thats what I am sensing. First of all, this girl isn't rejecting you, you seem to be convincing yourself you are somehow not worthy. If TBF comes from an affluent background and she is giving you grief for judging someone that comes from an affluent background- doesn't it stand to reason that, according to your logic, she'd tell you to give up because you don't measure up?
alphamale Posted March 8, 2011 Posted March 8, 2011 this is usually more true of the parents than the children. well the children usually become the parents
Pfiend101 Posted March 8, 2011 Posted March 8, 2011 If a girl met a rich man everyone would say oooooh dont worry money means nothing. lol funny how the world turns.
threebyfate Posted March 8, 2011 Posted March 8, 2011 If a girl met a rich man everyone would say oooooh dont worry money means nothing. lol funny how the world turns.Not if she posted the same type of opening post where the decision had already been made. But I would give her the same type of gentle poking I gave to tincanman that being a snob can go both ways.
whichwayisup Posted March 8, 2011 Posted March 8, 2011 Yeah we have been friendly and chummy. I am not understanding why I cant just distance myself and fade way. She will find another guy, there is always another guy. People do this all the time. Its happened to me, you just shrug your shoulders and move on. Oh I don't know, maybe it's just a nicer thing to do rather than just up and fade away. Yes people do that all the time, doesn't mean you have to..Even though it's happened to you. Anyway, the choice is yours. I just think since you two have been hanging out and been friendly, why do the disrespectful thing and just walk away without saying anything? If you are Ok doing that to her or another girl, then do it. Just remember how it feels when it's done to you. Either from the past, or sometime in the future. Your heart may be hurt and you'll regret treating her poorly by ending it without saying anything.
sniffys Posted March 8, 2011 Posted March 8, 2011 yeah ive dated rich people before, owned oil rigs and stuff. but i didnt even know they were rich prior to that. anyway i was lucky enough none were snobs, but in terms of this girl u are dating, its obvious you are bothered about it. you should probably sit down and make up your mind if she is worth all this discomfort. is she long term material? short term? these things dont usually just go away even if you really love someone. we used to have a housekeeper and a cook, and this guy i liked (at that time) felt uncomfortable about it. needless to say, we didn't work out.
Author tincanman99 Posted March 8, 2011 Author Posted March 8, 2011 First of all, this girl isn't rejecting you, you seem to be convincing yourself you are somehow not worthy. If TBF comes from an affluent background and she is giving you grief for judging someone that comes from an affluent background- doesn't it stand to reason that, according to your logic, she'd tell you to give up because you don't measure up? You are being logical here and we certainly cant have that on the forum can we?
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